I think my husband is an aspie
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Anonymous
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And suddenly it all makes sense. The irritableness, the angry outburst in traffic, the lack of patience, the lack of empathy, the long monologues on obscure topics, the robotic sex
Is there any hope? 
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Anonymous
| Hope for what? |
Anonymous
| Do you have kids? If not, get a divorce. It doesn’t get easier. |
Anonymous
| Pretty clueless of you not to have figured this out before you married him. Too bad! |
Anonymous
Wow, so mean! Lol |
Anonymous
This. Did you all not sit in traffic before marriage? Did you not have sex before marriage? All of a sudden, all this bothers you? |
Anonymous
| Leave OP alone, I got married young and had no idea what was normal and what wasn't now I'm in the same situation as OP. |
Anonymous
That’s on you. |
Anonymous
| Some people on this thread may not be "aspie" but they have some kind of cognitive issues regarding understanding a wedding vow that THEY MADE. "Hey, I was just saying that to get married. Now that I realize my DH is 'an aspie' I'm going to get a divorce. No big deal." |
Anonymous
| He just sounds like a jerk No need to take diagnose him |
Anonymous
Says an aspie. |
Anonymous
If he doesn't believe he is on the Autism spectrum ( not Aspie anymore) than no. |
Anonymous
No one else has brought up the word "divorce" but you. No one else. Just you. |
Anonymous
If he wasn't like that before, may be he is depressed and this behavior is reactionary? Encourage him to see a therapist. |
Anonymous
| Sure OP, as long as he is willing to work with a therapist. Most of us who are "aspie'" were never diagnosed and our parents just told us we were jerks, at least in my case. |