Right. And it is wrong in whatever context it happens. |
Oh, please stop making stuff up. You don't know a single surprised parent who prepped for AAP and is disappointed, unhappy or whose kids are on the verge of a nervous breakdown. I prepped my son by spending an hour or so going through the Mercer questions and he got into the pre-selection pool. That was 3 years ago. He is doing great and is easily in the top 3rd of students in his AAP class at his new center school. Absolutely no signs of stress yet for the (not-so) crushing AAP workload. I dare. Heck, I double dare any parents who prepped their children to come forward and describe how horrible the experience has been. Come on, do if for FCPS the community! Come forward and let us all know what havoc the madness of AAP prepping reaped for your family and for the community at large. |
You need to retake basic vocabulary. You are using words improperly and drawing conclusions with no basis, and which don't make sense in written or spoken English. |
Then you don't get out much. I know four parents off the top of my head who kept their center-accepted kids at our local elementary school. As for the calculation of why kids chose base over TJ or magnet -- are you sure you're not making that in your own head? The kids I've know who've opted for the local HS vs. TJ route, have made their decisions for a variety of reasons; lack of desire to focus on math and science, friends, competitive sports, interest in a different program, such as IB, friends (yes, imagine it. they are kids after all). I can't think of one example in fact (and I have three kids high school age and know many who came up from AAP who feared competition or were worried about how TJ would affect their grade point average. This is how adults think. |
Sure. Some kids find their neighborhood schools a walk in the park compared to TJ and some of the magnets, regardless of your noble rationalizations for school decisions! |
I know at least 5 families for whom their neighborhood schools were a walk in the park compared to TJ |
It is. Practicing for CoGAT is the same as practicing sports and music. The goal is to improve performance. |
Then their children clearly were not taking the most rigorous course load available at their base schools.
I have known plenty of kids who were taking course loads at their base school that were the humanities equivalent of TJ. |
And we wll always disagree because you are clearly trying to cheat to win. You may win some battles, but you will lose the war. You have zero ethics, and you children will learn that from you.
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Some do, some don't. But hopefully, they all realize that their ultimate happiness and success in life will not be based on where they attended high school. |
Hmm, you forgot what was noted in the rest of this post:
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Preparation for an exam or test is not wrong. It does not matter whether you are 8 or 80. It's done every day in our County and around the globe. Most FCPS parents have been preparing their children for GoCAT all along even if they do not know they have been doing so. Preparation for GoCAT cannot be assumed to be limited only to having the exact copy of the test and answers before hand. To assume so is pure ignorance. |
There is a difference between preparing for life and preparing for the CogAT (not GoCAT). I did puzzles with DD, built patterns with legos with her, and many other things. I did it to help her grow as a human. Not to get a better score on a test.
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Everyone does not share the same goals. Preparation for our daily tasks, tests and exams is really not about ultimate happiness. Children have to obey their parents whether they like it or not, whether they are happy or not. Citizens have to obey the laws whether you are happy or not or whether you like it or not. Citizens also have to pay taxes in the US whether you like it or not or whether you are happy or not. Finally, you will die whether you are happy or not or whether you like it or not. Success in life may not be based on where you attend high school. Yet, most of us in Fairfax County prefer to attend schools here and not in the inner city. We also generally prefer to attend schools in the richly funded as opposed to poorly zones of our County. |
Psychologists, educators and learned parents will agree this is excellent 'test prep' for GoCAT ... years before or the night before. |