Secure attachment, it's a thing, and many lack it

[Anonymous]

I mean, no it is not normal to be so insecure about your fiancée talking to his mom alone. It is not weird, and if you are being honest with yourself, you know you are needy and insecure and making a big deal out of nothing. Ask yourself, how many times do you see your own mom alone? How dysfunctional are your families of origin is so many here have total lack of secure attachment?
It is not unusual in younger people to be insecure and needy, but dcum sometimes is off the charts! Surely not all of you were raised by monsters who denied you any kind of emotional security and surely many promoted secure attachment? Also, smart people are not so needy and enjoy occasional alone time, or a lot of alone time.

This is not healthy, you moving away from your MILs but pretending your DH is driving the move, being jealous of your fiancé spending one evening alone with his mom? Being mad that your MIL came a couple of hours early to see your dd? Sure MIL acted weird, but so did you! You telling your DH he is being used by his sisters and deciding to tell him how he put a stop to it? Do you not understand op of that post that it paints you in the same bad light as his sisters? That you are just as immature and needy as they are?
How old are you all writing these posts? If you are over 30, grow up and start seeing yourself as a separate entity from your DH. You are a team, not conjoined twins!