Bennifer Revisited

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Matt Damon has gone on record with his support of them this round. That’s huge and means that Ben is emotionally invested in this relationship.

I would love for this to end up as their happily ever after!

if it does actually work out, I will eat my words, but...I remain VERY skeptical

+1. I’m not sure what the expiration date is precisely but this relationship does have one. If they were going to make it work this time, they needed to come at it from a different place than they did last time. But the bed hopping, showing off of jewelry, and performative PDA make me think they haven’t necessarily matured and may not actually be much wiser between them than they were during their last attempt.

I do think the relentless tabloid culture of the first time they were together contributed to their breakup. The tabloid landscape has changed quite a bit and they are both powerful and savvy enough to take control of the narrative this time.

[Anonymous]

I don't know if I would call it bed-hopping, BUT from the outside, it does not seem a healthy start to or ongoing relationship.

She ended a long-term engagement to a serial cheater. Within a matter of weeks, she was "dating" a cheating addict ex-fiance.

It seems like an unhealthy rebound to me, not a long term thing.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Matt Damon has gone on record with his support of them this round. That’s huge and means that Ben is emotionally invested in this relationship.

I would love for this to end up as their happily ever after!

if it does actually work out, I will eat my words, but...I remain VERY skeptical

Well sure Matt supported Ben and Ana as they frolicked on the same beach exactly one year ago. No woman should ever count on Ben Affleck for anything beyond a hot one-year-long affair. You know, like last time.

https://www.laineygossip.com/ben-affleck-ana-de-armas-at-malibu-beach-with-matt-damon-luciana-barroso/66780

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Matt Damon has gone on record with his support of them this round. That’s huge and means that Ben is emotionally invested in this relationship.

I would love for this to end up as their happily ever after!

if it does actually work out, I will eat my words, but...I remain VERY skeptical

I'm right there with you. I wish her well and have no reason to do otherwise but it does seem like she's looking for something that she doesn't find.. or it doesn't last.

Whenever I think a couple isn’t going to last, they end up staying together for a few years, and then when I’m at the point where I’m like, “aww, they really did make it,” they break up. See: Tom and Katie, Brad and Angelina

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Matt Damon has gone on record with his support of them this round. That’s huge and means that Ben is emotionally invested in this relationship.

I would love for this to end up as their happily ever after!

if it does actually work out, I will eat my words, but...I remain VERY skeptical

I'm right there with you. I wish her well and have no reason to do otherwise but it does seem like she's looking for something that she doesn't find.. or it doesn't last.

Whenever I think a couple isn’t going to last, they end up staying together for a few years, and then when I’m at the point where I’m like, “aww, they really did make it,” they break up. See: Tom and Katie, Brad and Angelina

Tom and Katie were not a real couple. Brad and Angelina stayed together years longer than they should have for the sake of the kids.

[Anonymous]

Brad and Angie were together a LONG time before they officially married…then split like 2 years later. Not sure the “stayed together too long” is accurate given that info.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Brad and Angie were together a LONG time before they officially married…then split like 2 years later. Not sure the “stayed together too long” is accurate given that info.

Marriage was a bandaid on a gaping wound. Of course they stayed together too long.
But I blame him. Nothing to do with that fight on the plane and everything to do with her anti-cancer surgeries.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Brad and Angie were together a LONG time before they officially married…then split like 2 years later. Not sure the “stayed together too long” is accurate given that info.

Marriage was a bandaid on a gaping wound. Of course they stayed together too long.
But I blame him. Nothing to do with that fight on the plane and everything to do with her anti-cancer surgeries.

and you know all this how? do you know them personally?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Brad and Angie were together a LONG time before they officially married…then split like 2 years later. Not sure the “stayed together too long” is accurate given that info.

Marriage was a bandaid on a gaping wound. Of course they stayed together too long.
But I blame him. Nothing to do with that fight on the plane and everything to do with her anti-cancer surgeries.

and you know all this how? do you know them personally?

I think it is safe to say the "entertainment and pop culture" forum is where people discuss famous people, how they look, their level of talent and sometimes, in fact quite often, they speculate on the successes and failures of their personal lives.

If you can't grasp this basic concept you probably belong in "local politics" and maybe "cooking" and should leave the rest to the rest of us.

[Anonymous]

I'm fine with speculation - just looking for what led someone to that conclusion

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I'm fine with speculation - just looking for what led someone to that conclusion

connect the dots yourself

actor leaves perfectly good wife (Aniston) for sexy younger model who is reputedly wild in the sack and wears the blood of her lovers around her neck
sexy younger model squeezes out a few babies then has her ovaries, uterus and breasts removed surgically, and goes into instant menopause and is no longer sexy younger model but actual human woman.
actor increased his drinking and their sex life dies.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:I think we’re going to see an engagement soon. Here’s Affleck and Lopez with Matt Damon who is a childhood friend of Ben. Matt is also one of the reasons Bennifer originally broke up. My my.

SO romantic!

It's interesting to see how pale she actually is (look at her legs). She puts enormous energy and time into her bronze look, obviously.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I'm fine with speculation - just looking for what led someone to that conclusion

connect the dots yourself

actor leaves perfectly good wife (Aniston) for sexy younger model who is reputedly wild in the sack and wears the blood of her lovers around her neck
sexy younger model squeezes out a few babies then has her ovaries, uterus and breasts removed surgically, and goes into instant menopause and is no longer sexy younger model but actual human woman.
actor increased his drinking and their sex life dies.

Not disputing that was likely a factor but rumors of constant fighting had been around for years before that. They came very close to a split in 2007.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I don't know if I would call it bed-hopping, BUT from the outside, it does not seem a healthy start to or ongoing relationship.

She ended a long-term engagement to a serial cheater. Within a matter of weeks, she was "dating" a cheating addict ex-fiance.

It seems like an unhealthy rebound to me, not a long term thing.

I wonder why they didn't date secretly for a while before going public. This doesn't make either of them good. Even if it is an unhealthy rebound I'd want to keep it quiet for a while. Are they trying to make their ex's jealous?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Matt Damon has gone on record with his support of them this round. That’s huge and means that Ben is emotionally invested in this relationship.

I would love for this to end up as their happily ever after!

if it does actually work out, I will eat my words, but...I remain VERY skeptical

+1. I’m not sure what the expiration date is precisely but this relationship does have one. If they were going to make it work this time, they needed to come at it from a different place than they did last time. But the bed hopping, showing off of jewelry, and performative PDA make me think they haven’t necessarily matured and may not actually be much wiser between them than they were during their last attempt.

I do think the relentless tabloid culture of the first time they were together contributed to their breakup. The tabloid landscape has changed quite a bit and they are both powerful and savvy enough to take control of the narrative this time.

Um....i suspect her pr machine fuels their "tabloid culture." Then and now. They are both exhibitionists and do not do well with privacy...they are not that healthy.