Is anyone keeping people of color out now? |
It sounds like you have a lot of unresolved trauma in your family of origin. That absolutely can color your opinion of a place. I live in Takoma Park, and like most people here, I would never ever want to live in Bethesda. We have friends in Frederick who have kids who love it. The parks are great and the college town vibe is a positive. I also like Columbia, MD and Severna Park. Rockville, too, checks a lot of boxes. |
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There is a whole livable downtown Rockville. It's just not on Rockville Pike. |
I'm surprised you find downtown bethesda "charming". That is not how I would describe it. |
You don’t think POC care about good schools? How insulting. I am POC and absolutely care about good schools and safety. I’m able to afford Bethesda and wouldn’t choose SS over it due to schools alone. In the end, I chose neither but I would never choose SS due to the schools. There’s the ugliness but that’s a secondary concern. |
Imagine how exhausting it is to be black and actually be subject to the effects of racism every day. |
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I'm not a big fan of any of the "downtown" areas in this part of MD. Honestly, DTSS is probably my favorite. I HATE the underground parking in Bethesda. It's obnoxious and takes forever. I am not a big fan of most of the restaurants in Bethesda, though there are a few good ones.
Friendship Heights is the worst. |
I used to think DTSS was charmless but it really grew on me. On a nice summer night everyone is out having fun! Good food, and I would happily go to AFI Silver every weekend for the rest of my life. That said, neither DTSS nor Bethesda seem very well designed to me. I think they both need better planning to navigate the type of density they have. |
| I'm in 20901 and LOVE my diverse neighborhood and my awesome community. I love my kids' schools. We are close enough to walk to Sligo Creek Park or Northwest Branch trail and go to both often. We can get to DTSS in 10 mins, Bethesda Row in about 15, Pike and Rose in about 15, and Kensington/Garrett Park in about 15. We can get to downtown DC in just over 30 mins. Of course you need to double those amounts when there's traffic...Don't buy a house for what the "downtown" area has to offer unless you are only looking for a walkable community. Buy a house that is affordable and works for you/your family and find a community you like. There are plenty of great neighborhoods in Silver Spring! |
But have you actually walked it? I have and card fly down the narrow streets and hate stopping at the stop signs. It’s even a bus route. So no, it isn’t as walkable as you like to pretend. |
This and pike and rose is brand new. Less than 5 years old so it was designed all at once. SS is old, has what the oldest urban mall in the US? Its making progress but it takes time. I live here but i dotn care much for aesthetics and love the people and the diversity and my woody neighborhood and close parks and the creek. If those things dont appeal to you, thats ok, move where youll be happy. |
And it isn’t walkable. Downtown Rockville has the same issue as Pike and Rose. Narrow streets that people fly down. Even in front of the theater cars drive fast. Lots of closed businesses over there. It’s off of 355 which is a death trap. |
Before the pandemic, our family would drive to downtown SS most weekends for dinner or shopping and I *really* appreciated the two big parking garages there that made it super easy to park. No searching for on-street parking and they were free on the weekends. One nice thing about SS (versus Bethesda) is that the Metro ride between SS and Union Station is all above ground, so you actually get to see the sun during your commute to and from DC. Plus you can surf the web freely on your phone throughout the entire ride, not just in Metro stations. |
People love radiator heat, what are you talking about? |