Question for men: What physical traits do you notice first?

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Anonymous wrote:If wearing leggings, then serious thigh gap. From there my eyes widen. If no thigh gap she shouldn’t be wearing leggings and I visually move on.


Thigh gap is a function of leg shape, not weight. There are skinny women whose thighs still touch because that's how their thighs are.
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Anonymous wrote:I'm 5'0, extremely fit, fake boobs (double mastectomy, thank you very much) and very pretty. I've had every man I dated that was 5'8" or under want to marry me, so I don't think height is a factor for most people.


5'8" is extremely sort for a man so of course, they wouldn't have a problem dating someone short, they are short as well. Generally speaking, men aren't as concerned with height as women are as long as the woman, isn't taller than he is.


The average height for a man in the US is 5’9” so 5’8” is in no way “extremely short.” It’s really not that far from the average height.
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Anonymous wrote:I honestly thought most men would say boobs.


A lot of guys I know do not like huge boobs.

In France, they say more than a coupe glass full is too big.



My husband does not like big fake boobs.


Some of us have huge real boobs


+1. Men love my 38C cup. I think women say most men don't like huge breasts because they have small ones. Many men love big breasts.


There are just as many @ss men, leg men as there are breast men. A lid for every pot.

Many love a tight and high @ss in yoga pants with hamstring definition. Women with pancake @sses, anorexically skinny with big fake boobs that look they are going to tip over. Skinny does not equal in shape. Skinny fat is the worst. Athletic builds are more attractive.


I think they did a study and the majority of men care more about the butt than boobs. Partcularly young men
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Anonymous wrote:I honestly thought most men would say boobs.


A lot of guys I know do not like huge boobs.

In France, they say more than a coupe glass full is too big.



My husband does not like big fake boobs.


Some of us have huge real boobs


+1. Men love my 38C cup. I think women say most men don't like huge breasts because they have small ones. Many men love big breasts.


There are just as many @ss men, leg men as there are breast men. A lid for every pot.

Many love a tight and high @ss in yoga pants with hamstring definition. Women with pancake @sses, anorexically skinny with big fake boobs that look they are going to tip over. Skinny does not equal in shape. Skinny fat is the worst. Athletic builds are more attractive.


I think they did a study and the majority of men care more about the butt than boobs. Partcularly young men

I have never heard this.

I will say, that I am flatchested (like barely an A cup, though a pushup bra helps) but I have a nice a$$, and I've had men from all different races hit on me.
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Anonymous wrote:I’m a breast man. Large breasts are my kryptonite.


Yes, when they are young, but age/gravity turns the tide.

Not all... Been with quite a few older woman with large, natural breasts and sit up as high as a young woman.

lol.. that is total BS, unless they were fake boobs.
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Anonymous wrote:I’m a breast man. Large breasts are my kryptonite.


Yes, when they are young, but age/gravity turns the tide.

Not all... Been with quite a few older woman with large, natural breasts and sit up as high as a young woman.

lol.. that is total BS, unless they were fake boobs.

Cute that he believes they’re real though!
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Anonymous wrote:No spinners. Anyone below 5'4" not attracted to them. To childlike.

There are many women who are under 5'4" who are curvy with big chests. They in no way look chidlike.


Curvy=fat.

Short, fat and dumpy--no thanks. And when they hit 50, the short size makes it near impossible for them to keep weight off when metabolism comes to a screeching halt with menopause.


Tall women turn into men after menopause. No thanks.


Like the tall one in The Golden Girls. Yes.
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Fit Brunettes. 5’5-5’7”. Defined muscles, sculpted.

Not attracted to red heads or bottled blondes at all.
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Anonymous wrote:I’m a breast man. Large breasts are my kryptonite.


Yes, when they are young, but age/gravity turns the tide.

Not all... Been with quite a few older woman with large, natural breasts and sit up as high as a young woman.

lol.. that is total BS, unless they were fake boobs.

Cute that he believes they’re real though!

I’ve been with enough women to tell the difference between natural breasts and implants
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Anonymous wrote:I’m a breast man. Large breasts are my kryptonite.


Yes, when they are young, but age/gravity turns the tide.

Not all... Been with quite a few older woman with large, natural breasts and sit up as high as a young woman.

lol.. that is total BS, unless they were fake boobs.

Cute that he believes they’re real though!


Guy here. Hate to say it but they were probably fake. With that said, fake one’s are really nice and I don’t get why guys always seem to say they dislike them.
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Anonymous wrote:No spinners. Anyone below 5'4" not attracted to them. To childlike.

There are many women who are under 5'4" who are curvy with big chests. They in no way look chidlike.


Curvy=fat.

Short, fat and dumpy--no thanks. And when they hit 50, the short size makes it near impossible for them to keep weight off when metabolism comes to a screeching halt with menopause.


My wife is 5’4” size 2 waist, 32 H boobs and a nice firm curvy yoga but. Nothing fat about her.


32H is repulsive, especially on that frame. A 2 inch waist


to the comment just above.

People in general are so confused and misinformed about breast size/bra size. Band size, cup size, frame size, body proportions, height, boob shape, etc all make boobs look different, project differently, and sit on the chest differently.

I'm 5'4", all over thin frame, size 0, and a size 32D in bras (natural boobs, professionally fitted). They are definitely not huge knockers, but not small either. Just a nice, normal boobs that aren't too small.



They sound spectacular
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Anonymous wrote:No spinners. Anyone below 5'4" not attracted to them. To childlike.

There are many women who are under 5'4" who are curvy with big chests. They in no way look chidlike.


Curvy=fat.

Short, fat and dumpy--no thanks. And when they hit 50, the short size makes it near impossible for them to keep weight off when metabolism comes to a screeching halt with menopause.


My wife is 5’4” size 2 waist, 32 H boobs and a nice firm curvy yoga but. Nothing fat about her.


32H is repulsive, especially on that frame. A 2 inch waist


to the comment just above.

People in general are so confused and misinformed about breast size/bra size. Band size, cup size, frame size, body proportions, height, boob shape, etc all make boobs look different, project differently, and sit on the chest differently.

I'm 5'4", all over thin frame, size 0, and a size 32D in bras (natural boobs, professionally fitted). They are definitely not huge knockers, but not small either. Just a nice, normal boobs that aren't too small.



They sound spectacular

They’re real and they’re spectacular. Lol
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Eyes. I like intelligent eyes.

I also like pretty eyes but intelligent eyes matter more.
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Anonymous wrote:No spinners. Anyone below 5'4" not attracted to them. To childlike.

There are many women who are under 5'4" who are curvy with big chests. They in no way look chidlike.


Curvy=fat.

Short, fat and dumpy--no thanks. And when they hit 50, the short size makes it near impossible for them to keep weight off when metabolism comes to a screeching halt with menopause.


My wife is 5’4” size 2 waist, 32 H boobs and a nice firm curvy yoga but. Nothing fat about her.

My FWB is 5’1” size 6, natural 34 I breasts. She carries a little extra weight but I find her sexy. That’s what makes the world go round...


Why then isn't she your girlfriend?

That’s an excellent question. We’ve known each other since ‘97. We worked for the same company, only in different states. We care a lot about each other and often talk about taking becoming exclusive. I’m not with anyone now and I know she’s not either. We talk almost every day to see how each other’s day went. I guess after all the covid crap is over, we will see what happens.


Newsflash: Not only is she your gf, you are in love with her. Duh, dummy
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HTWR! Its the first thing I notice.
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