Right, you can't claim to be IB for both. And she isn't planning to. |
She is occupying both residences. So are you upset because she can find a legal way to circumvent the system? Petition your representatives to put forth a bill to change it. I could name (for hours) countless things I disagree with -doesn't make them unlawful. I'm only pointing out that she isn't committing residency fraud. I feel bad for that second kid. Heck- It may even be my child, but try separate your feelings from what is lawful. Now I ask you...have you ever wondered why the entire city is trying to get in to one non-selective high school? I don't hear you complaining about that aspect of it. |
I'm not sure what your agenda is, but it's weird. You're literally just making up stuff and claiming it's a "legal way to circumvent the system." |
+100000000 I looked too and couldn't find it in any DC code. If someone knows where it is for DC (AND NOT OTHER JURISDICTIONS) please post! |
major dunning-krieger effect going on here.
the form you fill out requires that you attest the address is where you "reside." Your residence is not determined by where you (fraudulently) change your paperwork to list that address. your residence is where you actually reside, and OP admits that would be the Shaw house. if you could change your legal residence just by falsifying your address, then there would be no such thing as residency fraud, much less boundary fraud! |
Look, it may or may not be in the code, but there are certainly parallels in the case law that would be used. And although there may be some wiggle room in definitions (are 180 days required? Or would weekends be enough?) what we can say with certainty is that in a case where OP has no intention to actually LIVE in the dwelling, and admits she's just using the address to obtain a public benefit she would not otherwise be entitled do, she does not reside there. |
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I'm not from this area- but I *think* residency is where ever the child resides most of the time. I also think that, unless there is a documented reason, the child's residence is with a legal guardian- usually one or both parents. I think to be entirely "clean" OP would have to establish the condo as her primary residence and her current home as a second home. That might be hard to do if her DH lives in the second home.
Domicile/residence are complicated issues and states/jurisdictions will tend to go with whatever answer benefits them for tax/residency purposes. We're going through this headache in a lot of respects due to permanent job relocation for a spouse and a home that we're having trouble selling quickly. It's a headache and we know that either state could claim grounds to tax all of our income. Anyway, that's how it works almost everywhere--it's where the child legally resides. I don't think just staying with grandma for a few nights a week is going to cut it. |
Right but it seems that everyone here would agree that she is inbound for Shaw. She can’t also be inbound somewhere else. |
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I wouldn't blink an eye if I saw gma dropping off and picking up dear children.
What happens afterwards in none of my business. |
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OP, nothing is keeping you from moving IB for the school you want and having your mom live nearby. Nothing is keeping you from sending your kid to school in Shaw and buying a place for your mother to live near you.
But if you do what you're planning to do I hope someone reports it and your child is disenrolled from the WoTP school. |
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Fact is if OP can produce the requisite residency docs, OSSE isn't coming at her. Even if they were to investigate her for DCPS residency fraud (very unlikely), they'd simply give her several days to produce more residency docs than she gave at the time of enrollment. Certified tax returns showing DC withholding and multiple utilities bills bearing the in-boundary address top their list. OP could also also give them car registration, credit card bills, drivers license, voter registration etc. with the condo address on them in the hopes of being cleared.
I know this because I was investigated by OSSE and cleared, fairly recently. You may hate this state of affairs. But, sorry, you aren't going to change it by trying to frighten and shame OP from using the condo address as her in-boundary address on this thread. |
Not happening. Somebody could report OP but her child won't be disenrolled if she can produce extra residency docs within a few days. OSSE goes at low-hanging fruit, e.g. PG County address cheaters, not a DC resident like OP with a strong legal case. Even if OSSE was to do a home visit, which they almost never do for DC residents, OP could bring extra toys and kids clothes over to mom's for an investigator to photograph and things would be fine. |
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You’ll be fine if you own both places.
Make it a two bedroom condo and make sure the kids have a bedroom. It’s similar to if OP and the spouse were divorced and had shared custody. The kids would be IB for both schools in separate locales. If you really wanted to go the extra mile, get a shared custody agreement with grandma done in DC court. Costs less than 30 bucks. Sounds like Grandmas on board for pickups/drop offs and shared time anyway. Since you’ll be paying all the taxes, kudos. Welcome WTOP neighbor! |
| Hate to sound morbid, but if anything were to happen to OP and spouse, a shared custody agreement would ensure kids were placed with Grandma and that grandma could have rights over the kids. |
| ...and they could stay IB for the school |