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i agree that the definition of natural is extremely subjective and problematic, however you don't sound very nice. the whole "you don't get a medal" thing is so irritating! i didn't want a medal. i wanted to avoid interventions and the complications that can go along with them. i wanted a healthy baby and that is why i wanted to birth without an epidural and other intervention if possible. in my mind it's all connected -- the way the baby comes out, and the health of the baby. in my situation, avoiding intervention was possible and very healthy for the baby, and i also felt a sense of accomplishment at giving birth with no medication -- and i don't think there's anything wrong with that. it's not okay to be proud of something you wanted to achieve and achieved? i understand that not everyone wants to have a birth without drugs, and that not every circumstance or environment makes it possible, but when it is desired and possible, it can be pretty amazing. at least it was for me. i knew that intervention might be necessary, but i didn't want to have it done routinely or for no good reason. and breastfeeding for 13 months makes you a hippie? hmm.
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| you don't get a medal for being an anesthesiologist either, so maybe you shouldn't have become one? |
This is quite the non-sensical, fear-mongering, nonsense. What sickness are you talking about, exactly? Whose airway might be swollen? 10x greater than what? And most importantly, if food and stomach acid alike can cause illness or death, why restrict food? What might actually be helpful in this conversation would be a review of the research, which shows that any aspiration at all occurs at about 10 in 1 million cases, and of those, only a very small fraction result in severe morbidity. Instead, you write a bunch of condescending nonsense about "natural" birthers. I wonder how often you - being an anesthesiologist and all - actually spend any time with women who are having an unmedicated childbirth. It also doesn't sound like you personally have very much (if any?) experience with low-interventive birth. |
| FOUR c-sections! oooooh. That's a distracting tidbit. That's a lot riskier than eating and drinking in labor. |
I was unable to deliver my child because I didn’t eat during labor. I had a very long labor, thankfully was able to sleep because of an epidural but hadn’t eaten for 24 hours when I was going through transition. I started bonking and worried that if I tried to push I would faint (I have a history of fainting and know what I feel like when a fainting spell is impending). Meanwhile nurses and doctors were getting impatient because I had low-grade fever and they were worried about infection. I envisioned fainting during pushing and having myself and my baby brutally handled by forceps. I requested a Cesarean to avoid this fate. I feel confident that if I had been eating I would have been able to continue.
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| You will probably not be able to keep anything down anyway. I barfed the previous days food up while in labor. But go ahead and try. It’s worth a shot. Bone broth and popsicles are both considered clear. |
Adding. I had an intense labor, 36+ hours and a few days of prodromal labor at home. I couldn’t keep anything down except water. I had two dinners and a gallon of water post delivery, no exaggeration. |
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I had relatively quick deliveries but labor for me feels like the flu. Stomach pains, shivering, sweat, vomit etc. No way I’d want to eat.
First child: water broke 4 am, contractions started 6 am, no medicines or interventions (I wanted them but didn’t receive any). Delivered at 10:15 - I’d been pushing a few hours. They worked on me for a few hours to try to get hemorrhaging to stop and to try to get my placenta out. After that I kept blacking out. Sometime around 2 pm I had apple juice and a milk shake and it was great! The prior time I remember being that hungry and thirsty was after a strenuous 8 hr hike. Second child: water broke at 9 pm, epidural at 2 pm, delivered at 5 am so didn’t miss a meal anyway. I don’t remember for sure, but I think they gave me sips of apple juice. They also but fluids in my IV (as well as medication to prevent vomiting and to limit hemorrhaging). With the epidural I fell asleep and slept through some major contractions and woke up to push for 5 minutes. |
| You’ll be in so much pain you won’t want to eat. You’re thinking of marathon as akin to a physical feat, like running a marathon. It’s really not like that at all. It’s more like surviving the worst bout of food poisoning you’ve ever had and trying to relax and deep breathe while your body acts in ways you’ve never experienced and you’re enduring extreme pain (that is, if you don’t get an epidural). |
Ugh, I hate this shit. What's your problem? Why do you insist on lumping women into defined categories ("hippie cred") as though people who get c-sections don't also breastfeed? Huh? FWIW, I went unmedicated because I was afraid of the side effects of the epidural. It had nothing to do with getting a medal or some intrinsic valuing of things "natural." I combo fed - probably 90% formula and gave up breastfeeding entirely at four months. I know this is just anecdotal, but it just seems like there are so many assumptions in this post that aren't necessary. And why do you even care if women choose to go unmedicated? |
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Question for people who were induced. How did you handle food?
My understanding is induction takes way longer in the hospital than labor that comes on spontaneously bc with spontaneous labor your dont arrive at hospital until after water has broken and therefor can eat a wider array of calories closer to delivery. |
I had a bagel with cream cheese, a milkshake and Diet Coke during my 30 hr labor back in 2014. |
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At inova Alexandria they offered me snacks. But honestly with all 3 kids I didn’t want to eat. I mean, it was like food didn’t even exist. They offered me something and I was like, get that crap out of my sight immediately. No. Thank. You.
But yeah it helps not to go to the hospital until you’re in active labor. Don’t be freaked out op it’s not as bad as it sounds (at least, the not eating part!) |
This post is so weird. I had 2 natural child births in a hospital with midwives. They started an IV line (just in case) but I wasn’t hooked up to an IV and I could move around freely. I ate a little bit of snacks during my first labor but nothing the second time around - baby came quickly. I preferred to have a natural birth because I didn’t want major abdominal surgery and all the risks that come with it. However, the reason I delivered in a hospital is because wanted the option of a C-section if it became medically necessary. I think it’s beyond strange that you equate preferring to avoid surgery with being a hippie. Also, I have had surgery before, I know what anesthesia is like and my body does not respond well to it. I definitely didn’t want to deal with the side effects while caring for a newborn if I could help it. I guess to you that makes me an anti-science hippie for only having medically necessary surgeries.
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