same, except EH! And it’s not like the schools in MoCo and NOVA I could afford to move to are all that superior. |
Spare us this sort of super judgmental, holier than thou post. We know a couple SH grads from five years ago, when the school obviously wasn't nearly as good as gentrified as it is now, who are undergrads at top 10 SLACs. That's right, they went from Walls to colleges admitting in the single digits. Maybe your kid needs a private middle school or a high-powered suburban school to reach for the stars academically. Every student and family doesn't. We know SH families without TVs: these families read like crazy. We know SH students whose parents who are engineers teaching the kids extra math as a matter of course. As far as I can tell, they prioritize their children's education like mad. Come on, there are obviously students who attend OK middle schools who wind up a top colleges. |
+100 |
An independently motivated student can succeed at any school. The point of OP's post was that her child isn't independently motivated. |
If academic outcomes are strongly correlated to socioeconomic status, then why are Hill parents afraid to send their kids to Eastern? |
S-H feeds to Eastern. Once in a while a kid gets accepted to an Ivy from Eastern. You plan on sending your kids to Eastern? |
You're not really asking the question and, thus, don't deserve an answer. You're being cute. Bully for you. Come on, you know full well that by high school, even well-educated UMC parents can no longer compensate for much of what a school lacks. They can't pay enough tutors or book enough summer enrichment programs. They also can't manufacture a high performing peer group. SH has a sizeable high performing peer group. Eastern doesn't and probably won't acquire one for a decade or longer. |
Any decent school, vs. any school. PP's have been advising OP not to send her kid who isn't independently motivated child to SH. She doesn't sound inclined to listen. |
There’s a tiny bit of momentum there, but I think it’s a bridge too far to go to a HS with little/no infrastructure to support college admissions and advanced classes. But we’re still going to the open house. it’s a chicken-egg problem and if every kid at SH and EH attended it would be fine. |
Not surprised with the direction this thread took, but I will chime in for a second to say that I appreciate this prior poster is actually going to attend an open house at Eastern. I have been to one, and have spent time talking to families who are there. That's the way to actually learn about a school. Not saying they have the same programs as every other school, but they do have advanced classes, and in the last data point they shared, 88% of their students went onto a 4 year college. My impression of the school is there are some really strong rigorous options/tracks, and internships and university partnerships, for kids that take advantage of them. Question/goal is how many kids take advantage of them and how to increase numbers, but the foundation seems to be there, and leadership and teacher experience seems strong. And there is more buy in every year. So who knows, schools in DC are a crystal ball. |
“Eastern is not a dystopian hellscape. Let’s all sign our kids up!” |
I appreciate all of the responses I’m reviewing. I am actually not sure whether my kid is independently motivated or enough. That’s part of the issue. |
I hate this sort of post patronizing post. Oh, so the real problem is...lack of info about how great SH and Eastern are on the part of CH parents who reject these programs. Some of us have not only attended open houses, we've gone to talk to admins, dug deep into data, even volunteered at school events. The inconvenient truth is that Eastern's IB Diploma program remains weak as compared to suburban options in the DMV. The lack of an acceptable by-right high school after SH continues to make things tough for the middle school feed. With only a dozen SH students making the cut for Walls each year, the middle school remains a risky choice. When you point to more buy-in at Eastern every year, you're talking about 14 years since the renovation and reboot to attract, what, two dozen white kids in a catchment area that's become at least two-thirds white due to gentrification? At this rate, most of us won't touch Eastern not only for our children, but our grandchildren. |
And you're not going to figure it out. You're going to try SH for 6th grade, or you're not going to try it. If you do well in the charter lottery, with a spot at one of the Latins waiting for you, case closed. |
How advanced are the advanced classes? I remember taking (and acing) all the advanced classes at my middling high school, and when I got to college I still felt unprepared compared to my peers from privates and top high schools (think TJ). They had a level of understanding of the subjects (mainly humanities) that I just was never taught. I still feel like I’m playing catch up as an adult (even though I am successful in my field). |