You could get a secondary passport and dump the money into an investment account overseas to gain the passport. Just a thought. |
Max out retirement and pay down your mortgage. |
You have to report that income to the IRS. -signed spouse of dual citizen who has money overseas |
You could do this but then the equity of the house increases. You have to file for aid every year. I don't know how much impact moving the money from your bank account to your mortgage would be to the EFC. |
I know Princeton doesn’t count home equity…assume there are a couple others. I don’t know your interest rate, but maybe you want to refinance to a smaller mortgage amount vs just paying it down…this will at least lower your monthly mortgage payment to ease CF. Not a great option to replace sub-3% with 6%+….but a good trade off if you are at 5%. |
You’re not getting FA even if you try to hide your cash savings. You have healthy 529s and a healthy income. DD got zero, not even subsidized loans with a HHI under 200k and less assets. You’re not who FA is aimed at. We now have 2 kids in college and zero aid. |
you could get new teeth. |
or prepay for your funeral. |
Nothing sleazy about a private discussion when information--such as the particular LAC desired by one child--should remain confidential. Specific school, major, & career plans matter. Without more specific info., OP should consider whether paying full tuition for any LAC is worth it and whether the particular LAC is worth full tuition in light of a particular major, career plans, and likelihood of grad school. The short version: OP, if you have to ask, you cannot afford to send two kids to private LACs at full tuition. You need to search out schools with merit aid which will fit for your kids goals & interests if you prefer a private school. |
OP, why do you think you shouldn't have to spend your savings for college?
Why do you think colleges should give you free money over needy families with much lower incomes? |
Not OP but the colleges don’t even think you need to spend all your non-retirement savings. That’s why it’s only assessed at 5ish%. Why do you want to protect Harvard’s massive tax protected endowment over OP’s savings? |
OP here. Thanks PP your point about Havard's massive endownment vs our "wealth" is exactly right. Those numbers might seem high to some folks in this thread but we are really not super wealthy at all, we drive old cars, live in a small house and don't spend money frivolously at all. It's not like we had high incomes our whole lives, all you judgers have no idea what our financial history is. And also, our savings ARE retirement. Just because we stupidly kept them in a bank account doesn't mean we don't need them for retirement, which is sorely underfunded. |
Then why allow one of your kids to entertain the thought of expectation of attending an unaffordable dream school ? Any major or career plans ? Is grad school likely ? |
now we're talking. |
OP, our HHI is less than yours, but we were also looking at how to full pay $80k/yr for private college. My kid just decided to go in state. I tossed all my spreadsheets and my anxiety. I did give them the choice, but man, the relief is real. I highly recommend it!
Whether you are in Maryland or VA, there are a whole range of public schools. Have your kid look. |