I know dc will love camp but i'm sad to have him go away for 4 weeks. It's worth it right?

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I am sending 2 kids to a 2 week camp for the first time this summer. For the people who hated camp, what did you hate about it?
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I’m 54 and some of my best friends are people I met at camp. It was the best experience
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Anonymous wrote:How much does 4-8 weeks of sleepaway camp cost?


Low end around 10k, up to 17k
This is not true. Lots of camps are in the 7 k range
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Anonymous wrote:Oh my gosh, so worth it. I am from NY, my husband from the Deep South and we now live in the Midwest. I had to convince him to let our kids go to camp since it is so unfamiliar to him. But camp was the most formative and wonderful experience of my life. (I started going for 4 weeks and eventually roped my parents into 8) I think it is even more important this day and age- a month with no helicopter parents, no electronics or social media, no boys (I have daughters), no name brand clothes or social pressures. My girls will be going for the first time this summer.)l I think 3.5 weeks is the minimum time needed for acclimating, feeling at home, and getting the full benefit of the camp instruction. Many camps that are really intentional about curriculum, personal growth, etc. have those as minimum time frames, other than for first time campers. My husband is already getting so sad, but if they have even half the experience I did, I will be so happy for them


100% agree! My husband and I are from Midwest. We didn’t have these camps and I honestly thought it was something from years gone by (like in Parent Trap). But a good friend convinced me and it has been the BEST thing for my kids. They started with 3.5 weeks and now go for 7. They love it. It’s a chance to connect with friends from all over the US and really bond and work through differences, learn, and grow, over the course of 7 weeks. No computers, no phones, no homework. Just talking to each actual people all day long, playing games, learning new things they aren’t to do at home (sailing, etc.). They learn it’s ok to be cold, wet, hot, bored, uncomfortable at times and gain resilience through it all. But it is SO hard as a parent to have them away. I wouldn’t do it if I didn’t feel like it is truly great for them, or if they didn’t want to go.


Op - this is the thing - I’ve heard it’s soooo good for mental health, independence, socialization, friends for life etc etc


You’ve heard from whom?
Every parent that’s sent their kid to one.
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Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:How much does 4-8 weeks of sleepaway camp cost?


Low end around 10k, up to 17k
This is not true. Lots of camps are in the 7 k range


For 7 weeks?
Very wary of such a cheap camp
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Anonymous wrote:My kids never expressed any desire to do it, so we never did it. I would have been sad to lose them for more than a week or two over the summer.

I don’t think it has done them any harm, they travel a lot independently and have done foreign language exchanges etc, traveled to grandparents and so on. I am sure many kids benefit immensely from it, but I don’t think there is any harm in not doing it.


How is camp different in terms of losing them for a week than the things you list?
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Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:How much does 4-8 weeks of sleepaway camp cost?


Low end around 10k, up to 17k
This is not true. Lots of camps are in the 7 k range


For 7 weeks?
Very wary of such a cheap camp
No, for 4 week camp which is what most people here are talking about
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