(OP here): A humanities major can lead to many things, including admissions to graduate training that has lucrative financial outcomes, if that's your driving criterion. There are also pretty rounded students who don't have such polarized views and study a wide range of subjects, double major (e.g. philosophy and biology) and end up leading very interesting lives. |
Why? |
(OP here): This is very tough. I'm sorry for your child. Students can start a semester strong, and then just disappear, and the reasons can be opaque to a professor. The whole network has to work--residence hall directors, advisors/deans, medical center, etc. And lots of kids fall through the cracks. I'm one of the faculty who tends to be very empathetic, and I have a lot of colleagues like this. Sometimes the kids are just checked out and there isn't an underlying crisis. I tend to think there needs to be a way to hit "pause" and leave, get your stuff together, then come back and not have a huge negative mark (or a bunch of Fs) on your record. Sometimes kids have acute crises that ought not destroy the whole trajectory. |
(OP here): thanks. I think our major directors may have this access (and thereby can see trends). We've changed systems so many times I've lost track of what the features are, and I just haven't felt the need for the information. |
(OP here): Bingo, one example of how this is very common (even at a private where the information is not public--if you're doing grants together, you see salaries). Or people who run programs and centers and institutes who have budget authority and then see faculty salaries. |
(OP here): "Hi, tell us about yourself, what brought you to XYZ University?" "I grew up in [state]. Went to {school} and I [sports/hobbies] and I took this class because [sometimes quite thoughtful and compelling answers]." Not sure how that is weird or creepy. |
(Op here): No. I've been as impressed and disappointed at the writing of public and private students. I noted a trend that I've seen in my own experience, not a determinative framework for how I evaluate performance. There are great public high schools feeding our school, too. |
(Op here): Or, why not? |
This made me sad, but it's what I see in my college kid. Afraid and depressed. |
(Op here): Also a sense of hopelessness, coupled with some still-present aspiration for a better world. I'm not sure I'd have any hope left if I wasn't around 18-20 somethings who still think the world can be improved. Deep down I still believe that, despite every bit of evidence around me. They inherit a legacy of so much promise and so much decay. |
Is college harder now than it was 20 years ago? I graduated in 1999, and I don’t remember it being intense. Yes I had all nighters, writing papers and exams, but it was a lot of reading, discussing, learning ideas, taking interesting classes. |
Extremely weird and creepy school/class. Kids usually says 'I'm from NYC", I played football, I like cats". They don't say I went to such and such high school named XYZ which is private or public. |
(OP here): I'm not sure the academics are more difficult, and in ways the attention to pedagogy is light years ahead (more consistent delivery of fact-based material, inverted/flipped classes where there may be a homogeneous delivery of material and class time is for smaller group discussion/analysis or working through problems, having assumed the delivery of lecture-style content as part of prep/study time). I think what is different is how much extra stuff is packed into the time--clubs, activities, internships, etc. The kids I know are scheduled from 7am until 11pm (I frequently overhear discussions of this prior to class start, where they are lamenting not eating breakfast or not being in their dorm room, or having to their room to grab an item because they won't be back for 10 more hours, etc.). By mid-semester break they're usually pretty tired and by end of finals they're collapsing. |
Is this true? In my experience, staff salaries are very low in higher ed. |
My kid has a copuple of classes with 16 kids and 19 kids. I bet it was never said, and my kid never knows which ones went to public HS and which ones went to priviate HS. Very weired school/class. |