Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:There’s a long thread about it from a few months ago. I recommend this one gets locked and you join the other one. It was a good thread.
I wouldn’t know how to find it. Anyway I’m a mom who left an abusive relationship with young children and finding it so relatable. So much went wrong afterwards and sometimes it seems the only victory is not having returned. All this “you got this” and “you go girl” garbage is so meaningless when you don’t got this, when your life is objectively worse in many ways, when your kids suffer for your choices, when there is no real support beyond lip service bc you’re alone; when there is no partner, no safety net or redundancy in the system esp if you get sick or can’t work; when you have flashbacks of both the stability and of the abuse. It’s a lot sometimes just to keep going.