Mother calling me rich

Anonymous
I think she means it as a compliment, but makes me so uncomfortable.
Anonymous
My mom does the same. I don't think my mom means it as a compliment, though. She's anti-rich.

We're not rich but I suppose we're wealthier than she's seen personally throughout her life. I just ignore it.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:My mom does the same. I don't think my mom means it as a compliment, though. She's anti-rich.

We're not rich but I suppose we're wealthier than she's seen personally throughout her life. I just ignore it.


+1 My mom says the same and it's definitely not a compliment
Anonymous
Interesting. My mom also says it about neighborhoods l have friends in, and not as a compliment. She is sensitive enough not to say it about me, at least to my face.
Anonymous
I don't think me mom means it in a negative way, but I doubt she would refer to my sister that struggles as poor.
Anonymous
I think it is a jealousy thing.
Anonymous
I think my mom says it as a pride type of thing. Like, look what a successful kid I produced.

However, in reality, I am successful and well off despite my upbringing. I knew I didn't want to be like her and my dad, so I worked my ass off to better myself and provide myself with the best educational opportunities.
Anonymous
Tell her sternly .. Mom it's considered impolite to discuss money. And then add in, "and low class"

Btw, that is the a lesson she was told - her generation was told.
Anonymous
I don't think it is meant negatively, but I don't like it.
Anonymous
99% of rich people on DCUM don’t think they are rich. Yes, they are.
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