Anyone discover they were gay super late?

[Anonymous]

Tell me about your experience…,

[Anonymous]

It’s never too late to be gay

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:It’s never too late to be gay

+ a million.

[Anonymous]

By late do you mean you are in a heterosexual marriage with kids?

[Anonymous]

I was 36. I’m a female. Looking back there were definitely flags I just think I was oblivious. I am 48 now and happily married to a woman. I would describe myself as sexually bisexual but emotionally gay if u had to label myself.

[Anonymous]

What were the flags, if you don’t mind sharing?

[Anonymous]

I know a couple/few women who were happily married to men and basically just woke up one day and announced "I'm not attracted to you anymore, and I want a divorce." They (I can only think of two specific friends but I know there are more in my circles) really just decided to switch teams.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I was 36. I’m a female. Looking back there were definitely flags I just think I was oblivious. I am 48 now and happily married to a woman. I would describe myself as sexually bisexual but emotionally gay if u had to label myself.

Can you share more about how you figured this out? And what you mean by sexually bisexual but emotionally gay?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I know a couple/few women who were happily married to men and basically just woke up one day and announced "I'm not attracted to you anymore, and I want a divorce." They (I can only think of two specific friends but I know there are more in my circles) really just decided to switch teams.

This was what happened to my exDW

[Anonymous]

discover, no. admit or accept, probably.

[Anonymous]

Should be in the lgbtq forum

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Should be in the lgbtq forum

I think it can be helpful for there to be crossover now and again. This might help someone that is not quite sure of their own preferences.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I was 36. I’m a female. Looking back there were definitely flags I just think I was oblivious. I am 48 now and happily married to a woman. I would describe myself as sexually bisexual but emotionally gay if u had to label myself.

I've posted quite a bit about my story: My bipolar H was cheating on me with men, gave me an STD, we divorced. He still considered himself 100% straight -- I think because of the distinction you make above between sex and emotions. He (purportedly) has no interest in being in a relationship with a man, so he can't even call himself bi. We really need terms that distinguish between sex and romance.

[Anonymous]

I mean if megan fox or her lookalike showed interest then yes i'd consider myself bi

[Anonymous]

I am a woman and aesthetically and sexually attracted to women but really want to be fu*coed by a man. I enjoy getting to know men and building intimacy with them. I’ve never been with a woman though it would be interesting.