Anyone regret divorcing?
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Anonymous
| How come? |
Anonymous
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Kids hate living between two houses!
But my spouse cheated and left. I didn’t choose to divorce. |
Anonymous
| I want one. I think for me it would depend on the peace of mind you receive after. My husband is emotionally and physically abusive. I don’t know how tk start or to lose kid’s to him. |
Anonymous
| People never admit to this. The human mind rationalizes and defends its choices. It's natural. |
Anonymous
| My spouse was emotionally verbally and financially abusive. I am so happy to be free. |
Anonymous
| Here is a really in depth guide for anyone considering- http://yourdivorcequestions.org/wp-content/uploads/2015/02/New-Crossroads-of-Divorce-FINAL-7-13.pdf |
Anonymous
| I do. I regret following DCUM advice. |
Anonymous
This is 206 pages, hon. Any takeaways? |
Anonymous
| No. I regret getting married in the first place. There is nothing to regret about my divorce. |
Anonymous
If you considering divorce 206 pages seems a small investment- that said I was able to skim most of it in an hour. One of the main takeaways- will your kids be ok? Maybe. Maybe not. There are some factors to help you access that risk. |
Anonymous
If someone has to read a book to decide if they want a divorce, they probably should not divorce. I am divorced. I did not need a workbook. |
Anonymous
| My ex does. I don’t!!!!! |
Anonymous
| Not at all. We’re both much happier. I really like his new wife and his new kid is adorable. He seems happy. I’m happy. Kids say the divorce was the best thing to ever happen to them. We were very lucky in that I have some generational wealth and their dad remarried a wealthy, generous woman, so their lives actually were financially enhanced by the divorce. |
Anonymous
| Not for one second. |
Anonymous
Not necessarily, I divorced my ex and still love them. I admit it freely. I just gave up and didn’t try to save it. I regret it. It’s not everyday anymore as it’s been some time now, but the regret creeps up every now and then and it’s a day or two before I get past it. |