May I shamelessly gush?!

[Anonymous]

We moved away from family for a job opportunity earlier this year. This will be the first year we won’t see family for the holidays.

As sad as I am not to see my parents, I’m equal parts or even MORE excited we don’t have to fake our way through the holiday with DH toxic family. Even he has commented on how peaceful and relaxing things will be this year. This is the best thing to ever happen for our family.

[Anonymous]

Gush away! And enjoy making new traditions.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Gush away! And enjoy making new traditions.

Thanks!

I’m especially excited for Christmas Eve. We’ve always spent it with ILs and I’ve always dreamed of making our own traditions with our kids. They aren’t getting any younger and I can’t wait to start making our own memories and traditions!

[Anonymous]

I felt that way last year. Enjoy!!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:We moved away from family for a job opportunity earlier this year. This will be the first year we won’t see family for the holidays.

As sad as I am not to see my parents, I’m equal parts or even MORE excited we don’t have to fake our way through the holiday with DH toxic family. Even he has commented on how peaceful and relaxing things will be this year. This is the best thing to ever happen for our family.

Another "I hate my in-laws post"! How original OP!

[Anonymous]

I put an ocean between me and my mother 20 years ago, OP, and haven't regretted it since. I am very happy when I see her, about once a year. More would be detrimental to my health.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:We moved away from family for a job opportunity earlier this year. This will be the first year we won’t see family for the holidays.

As sad as I am not to see my parents, I’m equal parts or even MORE excited we don’t have to fake our way through the holiday with DH toxic family. Even he has commented on how peaceful and relaxing things will be this year. This is the best thing to ever happen for our family.

Another "I hate my in-laws post"! How original OP!

There you are! I was waiting for you to show up!

[Anonymous]

Debating doing this very thing.

[Anonymous]

Be careful what you wish for/ gush about, OP.

[Anonymous]

OP I so get it. One of our best holidays was when our first born infant had out of control reflux and we stayed home. Miraculously no vomit during the meal and we were so relaxed hanging out in our pajamas!

The one blessing of the pandemic was having an excuse to have a drama free and peaceful holiday. We loved it.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:OP I so get it. One of our best holidays was when our first born infant had out of control reflux and we stayed home. Miraculously no vomit during the meal and we were so relaxed hanging out in our pajamas!

The one blessing of the pandemic was having an excuse to have a drama free and peaceful holiday. We loved it.

Navigating family expectations can be tricky, but you shouldn't need a seriously ill infant or a deadly global pandemic to do as you please on a holiday.

[Anonymous]

Gush away, Lucky you!

I wish I could make a similar move so I don't have to see my relative's abusive husband for the holidays. I would miss the other relatives, but that it would be so worth it.

[Anonymous]

Enjoy your new traditions!!

I love my family and enjoy the holidays with them but every now and then I wish I could just spend it with friends. You get to do that, have a blast!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:OP I so get it. One of our best holidays was when our first born infant had out of control reflux and we stayed home. Miraculously no vomit during the meal and we were so relaxed hanging out in our pajamas!

The one blessing of the pandemic was having an excuse to have a drama free and peaceful holiday. We loved it.

Navigating family expectations can be tricky, but you shouldn't need a seriously ill infant or a deadly global pandemic to do as you please on a holiday.

Oh honey you don't know dysfunctional families. The times we have set boundaries otherwise we get a barrage of tantrums, insults, manipulations and so much more. Yes, therapy helps, but some people cannot fathom the level of crazy that lurks behind that seemingly picture perfect extended family Thanksgiving.

[Anonymous]

Congratulations!