How much would $1 million matter to you in dating?

[Anonymous]

Let’s say you found out that a guy who is interested in you had $1 million, say a paid-off $500,000 condo and $500,000 in savings. How much more likely are you to accept his advances (say on a scale of 1 to 5, with 1 being no change and 5 being very likely)? How old are you? The question is geared more towards younger women but for older women, the dollar amount could be adjusted to say $2 million.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Let’s say you found out that a guy who is interested in you had $1 million, say a paid-off $500,000 condo and $500,000 in savings. How much more likely are you to accept his advances (say on a scale of 1 to 5, with 1 being no change and 5 being very likely)? How old are you? The question is geared more towards younger women but for older women, the dollar amount could be adjusted to say $2 million.

I can't figure out if you're the one deciding if you to be a gold digger or trying to attract a gold digger.

[Anonymous]

I earn $1 million per year so it wouldn’t mean much.

[Anonymous]

It depends on other factors. If his personality is identical to someone else financially stable it could matter, but it doesn’t make up for anything deficient. So if you’re an asshole, being financially stable won’t fix it for you.

[Anonymous]

I'd be turned off that he told me how much he had. I can't imagine how else I would find out. Maybe he brags to his friends or acquaintances? Yuck.

[Anonymous]

I’ve never cared about how much money someone has while dating. If someone brags subtly about money, it’s a big turn off (I’ve dumped a lot of men in DC who lead with this). If I like the guy and see he’s financially responsible, it would just check a box. He would have to have all the other qualities I look for in addition to chemistry for me to continue dating him.

[Anonymous]

I’m 50 so if a guy hasn’t amassed 1-2m by this age it tells me he isn’t that financially responsible. But also it’s helpful to know he isn’t going to need my money either. So it’s not a criterion but I would have reservations about someone who wasn’t there yet.

[Anonymous]

You sound like a huge douche, so zero.

[Anonymous]

Did he make the money? And why is 1 million big enough money for him to let it slip out?

[Anonymous]

The Whitman coach having sex with the girls on his crew lives in a $1.5 million townhouse in Georgetown.

Does that make him more attractive?

No.

[Anonymous]

$1M what? Sitting in a locked up pension fund? Annual income less taxes? Liquid savings? In an investment account?

All I know is the guy or whatever age manages to save or earn or win or be gifted $1m.

And hopefully it’s not sitting in some unrealized crytpo account… pre tax.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:$1M what? Sitting in a locked up pension fund? Annual income less taxes? Liquid savings? In an investment account?

All I know is the guy or whatever age manages to save or earn or win or be gifted $1m.

And hopefully it’s not sitting in some unrealized crytpo account… pre tax.

Eh, if he made $1M in crypto he’s either extremely lucky or not the idiot you seem to think!

[Anonymous]

I don't count that as being a millionaire. But maybe that's just me. I consider one million as having that in the bank and retirement. I have two houses paid for combined worth over a million I would guess. But only recently considered myself a millionaire based on what I have in the bank

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Let’s say you found out that a guy who is interested in you had $1 million, say a paid-off $500,000 condo and $500,000 in savings. How much more likely are you to accept his advances (say on a scale of 1 to 5, with 1 being no change and 5 being very likely)? How old are you? The question is geared more towards younger women but for older women, the dollar amount could be adjusted to say $2 million.

I turned down a lot more in 1990s-early 2000s. Didn't matter AT ALL. Now if it was say, 20m+, then maybe that sweetens pot.

[Anonymous]

But my vibe in NOVA is 500k is like winning lottery and so amazing. lol.