Had Sex With Friend

[Anonymous]

I’ve been friends with him for almost a year. We hung out together and one thing lead to another. Now I don’t know where to go from here or how/of this will change our friendship. Any advice?

[Anonymous]

Why are you being passive about this? What do you want to see happen? Do you want to stay friends? Do you want to pursue a romantic relationship? Until you answer that for yourself, you can’t know which next step to take.

[Anonymous]

Maybe he likes you?

[Anonymous]

And…there is no such thing as a man that wants to be just friends with a woman. If they both are straight and single

[Anonymous]

I've slept with basically all of my female friends at some point. Sometimes it's FWB, sometimes more romantic, sometimes one-off. Figure out which way you want it to go, if it's worth exploring, and talk about it.

But agree it's real hard to be straight and have straight opposite sex friends and not sleep with them at some point.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I've slept with basically all of my female friends at some point. Sometimes it's FWB, sometimes more romantic, sometimes one-off. Figure out which way you want it to go, if it's worth exploring, and talk about it.

But agree it's real hard to be straight and have straight opposite sex friends and not sleep with them at some point.

No, it’s really not.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I've slept with basically all of my female friends at some point. Sometimes it's FWB, sometimes more romantic, sometimes one-off. Figure out which way you want it to go, if it's worth exploring, and talk about it.

But agree it's real hard to be straight and have straight opposite sex friends and not sleep with them at some point.

Huh? I have many friends like this I haven’t slept with and never will. It’s called a boundary.

[Anonymous]

Don't make it weird. If you liked having sex with him, do it some more. If you didn't, then tell him you're not looking for a romantic relationship and go on like you were before having sex with him.

[Anonymous]

OP here. I’m not sure what I what. He’s attractive but I haven’t really thought about being romantic with him. I don’t know if he is interested in me. I think drinking played a big part in us hooking up. It had been a long time for both of us and it happened. I don’t know what I want or if I want anything.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:OP here. I’m not sure what I what. He’s attractive but I haven’t really thought about being romantic with him. I don’t know if he is interested in me. I think drinking played a big part in us hooking up. It had been a long time for both of us and it happened. I don’t know what I want or if I want anything.

Was the sex good? Worth doing again?

Sometimes, sex with friends can be awkward and bad.

[Anonymous]

He’s married and I’m single, so there’s a bit of a twist.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:He’s married and I’m single, so there’s a bit of a twist.

So you're a slut. OK, well definitely start making better choices. And block and delete him.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:He’s married and I’m single, so there’s a bit of a twist.

And he told you it had been a long time for him? I won't call troll just yet.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:He’s married and I’m single, so there’s a bit of a twist.

Oh. How were you hangin out with a married friend. Where was his wife?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:He’s married and I’m single, so there’s a bit of a twist.

Eww. You sure are trashy, aren’t you?