Husband does not hear the word no
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Anonymous
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Been married for years. The man does not hear the word no. Today is my birthday and all I'm asking for is peace. Instead, he asks if a friend who's starting a new business can come here and work on his car. I say no, because he plans to be out most of the day on a bike ride, and I didn't like the guy much last time he came over, and don't want to deal with him alone. He replies it's the only day he can do it. I said I would prefer to take the car to someone else to do then (I drive it a lot). Instead, I find out he's made arrangements for the guy to do it late this afternoon, after he gets back from his ride. My daughter and her boyfriend will be here and we were planning on a quiet dinner here at home. I do NOT want this guy to join us and I guarantee you my husband will invite him for dinner. This guy gave me the huge creeps last time he was here. He works at the same company as my husband, and my husband has already said things like "he gets in his own way" and "he's his own worst enemy" when I ask him how this guy is doing in the program. In other words, not well by his own doing.
I just might be asking for a divorce for my birthday . Kids are grown and I'm tired of fighting these stupid battles. |
Anonymous
| It would seel he has no respect for you. What does he say when you bring up the fact that he doesn't care about your opinions or wants. |
Anonymous
Yeah, definitely she should divorce her husband for inviting over someone she doesn't like. It would be great to hear his side of this compelling story. |
Anonymous
But its not just any day, its her birthday. |
Anonymous
| If you think you have absolute veto power what your husband does, you might as well get divorced. |
Anonymous
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So your car needs service, the only time it can get fixed is today, and he rescheduled it to the afternoon so he'll be home when the guy comes to work on it?
You could get your own car serviced and avoid all this. |
Anonymous
| Long-time married DW here (married over 35 years) and I feel you. Your DH is being awful. I feel for you. Please do NOT let that creepy guy over. Happy Birthday!!! |
Anonymous
| Join me in my “I’ve had enough of this BS divorce”. Married 28 years , kids grown, and would never remarry. |
Anonymous
| Go out to dinner with your daughter. Leave the other two at home. |
Anonymous
This is the solution. Your husband is being a jerk. |
Anonymous
Exactly what I planned to do. The work is cosmetic. The car runs fine. He's trying to help this person out and the person claimed this is when HE could do the work. It's not necessary work. |
Anonymous
Funny you should bring this up. I was considering this. |
Anonymous
OP here. LOVE this. I think this is what I want for my birthday |
Anonymous
Thank you! |
Anonymous
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OP at the very least go out all day. Do something for you.
When you get back tell your DH you want a divorce. Guy gives you the creeps and he wants him to come over H no. |