WWYD: Literally caught him with his pants down

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[Post New]09/26/2017 20:31
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Anonymous
As I was driving home from work today, I see my partner in his car with an unknown woman in the passenger seat and he appears to be changing his pants. I pull over (with our 3 yr old daughter in the car) and kindly ask him what the hell is he doing. He says he is going to happy hour with co workers to celebrate passenger girls birthday and was changing out of his uniform. he hadn't called me to tell me had plans after work. And I was very upset he had his pants down with boxers in full view while this girl is sitting right there. I left and called him to say if you don't come home immediately and explain yourself then I'm done. He says ok but stays and has a drink and comes home an hour and a half later. WWYD?
[Post New]09/26/2017 20:31
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Anonymous
Divorce
[Post New]09/26/2017 20:32
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Anonymous
That would never happen to me because I practice sorcery. My men are bound.
[Post New]09/26/2017 20:33
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Anonymous
What was the passenger doing when you called him out?
[Post New]09/26/2017 20:33
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Anonymous
Oh hell no. Riot act.
[Post New]09/26/2017 20:34
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Anonymous
First I would acknowledge that my husband is cheating on me.
[Post New]09/26/2017 20:36
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Anonymous
You say "partner" but you really mean boyfriend, right? Either way, it's over.
[Post New]09/26/2017 20:37
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Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:As I was driving home from work today, I see my partner in his car with an unknown woman in the passenger seat and he appears to be changing his pants. I pull over (with our 3 yr old daughter in the car) and kindly ask him what the hell is he doing. He says he is going to happy hour with co workers to celebrate passenger girls birthday and was changing out of his uniform. he hadn't called me to tell me had plans after work. And I was very upset he had his pants down with boxers in full view while this girl is sitting right there. I left and called him to say if you don't come home immediately and explain yourself then I'm done. He says ok but stays and has a drink and comes home an hour and a half later. WWYD?


Be done. It's obviously not important to him.
[Post New]09/26/2017 20:42
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Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:You say "partner" but you really mean boyfriend, right? Either way, it's over.


"Partner", when used by heterosexuals, means he comes and goes as he pleases and she will have sex with him and take him back every time.
[Post New]09/26/2017 20:43
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Anonymous
Frankly, I'm sick of people on this forum saying "partner". A boyfriend relationship just doesn't have the same level of commitment as a HUSBAND so, yeah. Still if it were me, I'd break up with him for sure.
[Post New]09/26/2017 20:44
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Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:You say "partner" but you really mean boyfriend, right? Either way, it's over.


"Partner", when used by heterosexuals, means he comes and goes as he pleases and she will have sex with him and take him back every time.


lol, yep.
[Post New]09/26/2017 20:45
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Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:You say "partner" but you really mean boyfriend, right? Either way, it's over.


"Partner", when used by heterosexuals, means he comes and goes as he pleases and she will have sex with him and take him back every time.


The situation would make a lot of sense if this was a gay couple.
[Post New]09/26/2017 20:45
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Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:Frankly, I'm sick of people on this forum saying "partner". A boyfriend relationship just doesn't have the same level of commitment as a HUSBAND so, yeah. Still if it were me, I'd break up with him for sure.


we've been together a decade, own a home together, joint money, beneficiary to each other's wills, medical POA, raising children together. Believe me there is far more commitment here than there was in either of our marriages
[Post New]09/26/2017 20:47
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Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:As I was driving home from work today, I see my partner in his car with an unknown woman in the passenger seat and he appears to be changing his pants. I pull over (with our 3 yr old daughter in the car) and kindly ask him what the hell is he doing. He says he is going to happy hour with co workers to celebrate passenger girls birthday and was changing out of his uniform. he hadn't called me to tell me had plans after work. And I was very upset he had his pants down with boxers in full view while this girl is sitting right there. I left and called him to say if you don't come home immediately and explain yourself then I'm done. He says ok but stays and has a drink and comes home an hour and a half later. WWYD?


I would be done. Tell him to pack his stuff and leave tonight, and your lawyer will contact him about custody issues and child support.
[Post New]09/26/2017 20:48
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Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Frankly, I'm sick of people on this forum saying "partner". A boyfriend relationship just doesn't have the same level of commitment as a HUSBAND so, yeah. Still if it were me, I'd break up with him for sure.


we've been together a decade, own a home together, joint money, beneficiary to each other's wills, medical POA, raising children together. Believe me there is far more commitment here than there was in either of our marriages


Why didn't you get married? How many kids do you have together?
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