Did you have sex last night?

[Anonymous]

How many times do you have sex in a week?

[Anonymous]

no, and maybe 0.1x per week

[Anonymous]

No, we made out on the couch while waiting for Peapod to show up. Then we went to bed.

Usually have some kind of sex 5x a week. This week, it'll probably be more like 3-4x due to a bunch of evening commitments.

[Anonymous]

Yes we had sex last night. Usually 3-4 times a week. I have to be up at 415 3 days a week so usually one or two of those days DH and I will have a quickie after dinner and I'll go to bed and he stays up until 11 or so. He is convinced that an orgasm will help me go to sleep at an earlier time (since I'm usually a night owl). I'm not complaining!

We are early 30, together 6 years, have an almost 2 year old.

[Anonymous]

Lucky you- sex giv es me insomnia.

[Anonymous]

Yes, about 1x a week lately bc of morning sickness.

[Anonymous]

No. Once or twice.

[Anonymous]

No...nothing since we conceived. Wife's drive wasn't great before, and post-marital weight gain (and the body image issues) kind of made her even more inhibited. We were sliding into procreative only mode already...now nothing...4 weeks. I've stopped trying to initiate - I'll try touching and other affection that let her know I'm interested, but I'm not up for the rejection. I don't have ED at all, but I'm no longer able to get aroused with her because she just lays there...is not interested and has tense body language. We're in a tailspin and I fear we're gonna auger-in.

I give up...I'm destined to a life of masturbation. Nothing new since I was a teenager I guess.

[Anonymous]

No. Have my peiod and it's a freaking painful bloodbath.

Usually 2-3 times a week. Does that make up for the 5 days I'm out of commission?

[Anonymous]

Last night it was me and my trusted magic wand. DH is in another state. Usually 4x a week.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:No. Have my peiod and it's a freaking painful bloodbath.

Usually 2-3 times a week. Does that make up for the 5 days I'm out of commission?

Make up to whom... shouldn't you only be making it up to yourself? So they question should be to you.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:No...nothing since we conceived. Wife's drive wasn't great before, and post-marital weight gain (and the body image issues) kind of made her even more inhibited. We were sliding into procreative only mode already...now nothing...4 weeks. I've stopped trying to initiate - I'll try touching and other affection that let her know I'm interested, but I'm not up for the rejection. I don't have ED at all, but I'm no longer able to get aroused with her because she just lays there...is not interested and has tense body language. We're in a tailspin and I fear we're gonna auger-in.

I give up...I'm destined to a life of masturbation. Nothing new since I was a teenager I guess.

This is a really tough time. Don't assume that you're doomed for the rest of your life.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:No. Have my peiod and it's a freaking painful bloodbath.

Usually 2-3 times a week. Does that make up for the 5 days I'm out of commission?

Make up to whom... shouldn't you only be making it up to yourself? So they question should be to you.

Oh hi PP's wife that hasn't had sex since conceiving. Some people consider the sexual needs of their partners too.

[Anonymous]

yes - it was a relatively quick romp at about 30 minutes but really intense (long build up that started while I was on a late conference call).

usually 3 or 4 nights per week (just depends who is kid free) and 2-3x per night.

~divorced dad

[Anonymous]

I wish.

Like a pp, it was me and the magic wand last night. Haven't been able to elicit sex from my husband for almost a year.