| Cool Hand Luke |
|
October Sky - . Based off a true story of mining boys in West VA who build a rocket. We watched it as a family movie night and now it is on cable all the time and a required movie for a boy scout community merit badge.
What does your DS like? I worked at Erols/Blockbusters growing up and am now subjecting my 10/13 year olds to movies I loved. The 10 year old was discussing the difference between slapstick and screwball the other day (In his words, slapstick is 3 stooges and mom won't watch that. Screwball is bring up baby and mom will watch that.) They can handles some of the classics now - especially some of the old comedies. |
|
Stand By Me is rated R
Shawshank is rated R and has male/male rape scenes Geez, people. |
I can't think of a boy on this planet who would voluntarily read or sit through a single Nicholas Sparks book or movie. A twelve year old boy is very different from a romance starved middle age woman. Cross that suggestion off your list OP. |
You think 12 yr olds don't know about rape? Come on. I don't care if a movie is rated R. Generally if it is I'll either watch with my kids or watch before so we can discuss it, but I was NINE when I saw Stand By Me, and it didn't damage me at all. The most upsetting part to me was the scene in the water with the slugs. |
I think twelve year olds don't WANT to know about/see rape and that twelve year old boys in particular are not old or mature enough to justify showing them prison rape depicted. That is traumatic and not appropriate for a sixth/seventh grader. |
God, no! |
As a romance starved middled aged woman, I completely agree with you. (I hate Nicholas Sparks books and movies.) |
|
Most of my ideas have already been suggested, but I'll second:
Star Wars Indiana Jones Stand By Me October Sky Yeah, I'm old-school ... Not really up on new movies, but these are classics and definitely worth watching IMHO. Trivia time: how many have read the one book that both Stand By Me and Shawshank Redemption are from? |
|
Fast Times at Ridgemont High, Valley Girl, Risky Business, Endless Love, teens love that T & A so give them what they want.
|
If you truly want to give them what they want, you wouldn't make them watch any of these movies with an adult. |
I hate the whole premise of Pursuit of Happiness, and I would never recommend it an adult, let alone a child. If you watch the interviews with the author, you would know that what he did to get ahead destroyed his relationship with his son. |
Eh, I think it's important for kids to know about rape and quite frankly think there's nothing wrong with them seeing how awful prison would be, right as they're getting to an age of more independence from parents and may be more likely to do things like shoplift, etc. I don't think it's traumatic OR inappropriate for the average kid of that age. |
I saw it at camp at about that age. Loved it. |
Most of these are for kids younger than twelve. Matilda? Really? |