| PP, you ask a good question. To those posters who have seen or been party to this behavior in a professional environment, who is pursuing whom? |
| I went out a lot in my 20s and very early 30s. I saw married men hitting on women and I was hit on all the time. There were probably women hitting on the married men too but nobody ever confided in me about it and I didn't see it happening in that direction. The men were the ones chasing the young girls. |
| No, but they let you know they are available for such advances. |
+1 I was never interested in a married man. Bad Karma. |
I'm a sapiosexual - love your vocabulary - are you a DW? if so can I hit on you ?
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Yes, women hit on married men no matter where they live or what the demographics. Married men are easier to deal with. You don't have to do their laundry, cook their meals, or raise their children. Married me are more attentive and fun. They listen to you, take you nice places and are generally fun. It's not necessarily about money or power, yeah it can be especially in this city (power is a great aphrodisiac).
To think that your husband will never get hit on because of a ring is naive to think that your husband will never hit on another woman because of a ring is also naive. |
Thank you unmarried 30-something. |
| At this stage, if my husband hits on another woman and she is agreeable, please take him-you can deal with his issues. I'm exhausted. |
| If he is a success, then yes. If he is a failure, a resounding no! Thank you for test-driving him for the trophy wife. |
| I don't know any who do, but I do know a few who have hooked up with married men after those men hit on them. (A couple knew the guys were married; a couple had no idea and found out later.) |
| The insecure Filipino in my office has been sleeping with one of the owners of the company for quite a while. They don't even hide it anymore. His over the top I have a small penis car is parked in front of her rather abysmal rental all the time. Everyone knows. Come out with it already. |
| I want to hear the Capitol Hill stories some poster alluded to earlier. |
Ha, ha. No. |
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Yes. My husband was in the grocery store the other day and a woman took the bananas out of his cart, saying she was conducting a 'social experiment'.
Gotta admit, it's a cute approach
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I flirt with married guys. It's fun and harmless. Most respond very well to flirtatious behavior.
I do not try to pick them up. You signed up to deal with him. I'm not stepping in to volunteer for that gig. |