Dating a guy that makes less & going to school

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Umm to me, this is a no brainer. You "support" him or carry the majority of the household earnings now, and then, after he is making bank, you have babies. Go out to dinner, have fun both ways, low cost and a little spendy, don't sweat it. That is NOT a big deal. It may turn out if you get married and have babies, you like working and he likes staying at home. If you are in the relationship for love, none of this matters as a "deal-breaker" off of the bat.... It is more finding a way forward through each little step and having fun along the way.

This is so subversive, do you really think that it is her obligation and joy to support this man for life financially?

[Anonymous]

Well OP you should find a man who makes about what you nmake. It is clear that a man who makes more would be support you.

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