This should be required reading. |
1000% we need to get rid of school Chromebooks. It is making kids lazy and teachers lazy. Oh, I have a 45 minute math block to fill? Here’s a few slides on the topic, a video someone else made, a link to an online assignment someone else made, and then a link to some online math games for the rest of the time! |
I have brought up multiple times to the school that our kids have too much online learning. My friend is livid because her child was getting good grades in math but lacks basic math skills. Parents had no idea the child was struggling. Multiple parents realized that this teacher doesn’t teach. It is like handing your kid an iPad so you can get a break except the teacher is handing your kid a Chromebook. |
For us it didn’t start until 6th grade but both of my kids complain all the time that the teacher “teaches” for 10-15m and the class watches online videos or does online assignments individually for the rest of the 80 minute block. |
Yes and yes! It is terrible. I feel like I have to have practically home school by kids or they would have zero growth. And I do. |
Yeah, my middle schooler’s math class consists primarily of Zearn. The teacher may present a small amount of material, but they spend the majority of time on Zearn. What is happening ? |
But you don't sound callous. You sound narrow minded. Move past your N=1. There are other children in the world, even other adults. Pretending the cause doesn't exist means that focusing on a solution is ineffective. |
Kid is now in 5th grade. They had lockdown spring of 1st grade, then 2nd grade kid went in person for 2 days per week, so over fall/ winter had 19 in person school day wearing a mask. 3rd grade was everyday in person, I think still wearing mask through fall.
Did it affect them? Yes, but it was more on the social interaction side and was most felt in 3rd grade when they all were in person daily. There may be lingering effects but they decrease as kids grow older. My 5th graders memory of the pandemic is also getting kind of hazy. |
We caught leaning disability during covid. I had always asked teachers at every conference about possible ADHD and they said no. ADHD seemed so apparent when I observed online learning, so we got testing which confirmed it. I guess because my daughter's grades were fine and she wasn't throwing chairs, the teachers lumped her in with the "no problems" kids.
I do wonder if the frequent screen stimulation shrinking attention spans makes it much harder to distinguish between general distractability and true ADHD. |
My kids were playing soccer and tennis during this time. 2020 was definitely lonely as we stuck to ourselves but in 2021, life was mostly back to normal. My kids played outside with friends. |
I have a 5th grader, 8th grader and and older child. The 8th grader and class seem typical and normal. The 5th grade as a whole seems quite stunted and not at all where the grades were when my older children were in 5th. It seems to particularly impacted the boys. Overall they act a lot more immature and seem to need a lot more handholding both socially and academically |
I would love to see elementary and middle schools eliminate or greatly reduce screen use in class, and ban phones. If parents flip out about banning phones for safety reasons, invest in those phone pouches that keep kids from using them during the day but would enable them to access phones in a true emergency. Seems like a good solution.
We are a low-screen family with a middle-elementary kid who doesn't have a tablet or a phone and won't for the foreseeable future. It is alarming to me how many of her classmates are already addicted to TikTok, YouTube, or instagram. Also, not to throw back to the 90s, but kids are also playing an enormous amount of video games. I'm not anti video games (I play them sometimes myself) but these kids do not need to be playing 3 hours of Minecraft a day (or worse, watching 3 hours of Minecraft YouTube videos, a phenomenon that should really raise questions for parents about what it is their kids are getting out of screen time). I have struggled with screen dependency as an adult, so I really prioritize trying to keep my kid off screens as long as possible so that she at least develops some coping skills that don't involve screens. I have to be on a computer and my phone all day for work and it absolutely makes it hard for me to unplug when I'm not at work. But I'm in my 40s. I can't imagine doing that to a 10 or 11 year old. Let's give them a chance. |
Yes, you describe the response from teachers perfectly. How old was your daughter who you did testing? My younger daughter is in K at a very academic private and has received very positive feedback from her teachers over the last two years but she is very distractible and despite being athletic gets injured easily as a result. It's terrifying as a parent. I've brought this up with her pediatrician who has dismissed my concerns while my daughter is jumping around her office and stumbling over chairs in the background. I have ADHD and my husband's family has a strong ADHD history so there is a genetic predisposition. I wasn't medicated until the end of middle school and I really should have been medicated earlier. Because DD is in such an academic setting I don't want to wait too long for testing. Also, did you get a neuropsych and involve the school? |
We got testing through Children's hospital when my daughter was 9, after being on the wait-list for over a year. The 2e diagnosis indicated that high intelligence helped mask some of the symptoms, but I still wonder how the teachers could have seemed so confident in telling me not to worry about ADHD |
PS to answer the last part of your question, yes it was a full neuropsych. The involvement of the school so far was to have the teachers fill out surveys as part of the assessment and then starting a 504 plan after we got the diagnosis. We did not do any testing through the school. |