Is she good in bed? |
This is very attention seeking, needing external validation behaviour. Very unattractive in someone over 40. At this point in life, you want to date someone who is confident in themselves and doesn't care that much about what others think. That is one of the perks of aging!
I also would be turned off by someone being on their phone and social media all the time. |
Is she over 40?
And/or Is she trying to monetize her platform? |
Yup |
Have you talked to her about it? |
Is she constantly on tik tok too?
|
Gtfo not normal. |
Most elder millennials got over posting anything on social media starting about 10 years ago and definitely had it completely phased out by Covid.
That generation more than any took a look at social, tried it out, and dropped it like a hot potato. She’s definitely an outlier. |
This is concerning from a mental health standpoint. I am a psychologist. It would also drive me nuts, and would be a deal breaker! |
Very much this. “Let me show you how over you I am.” |
That’s who she’s thinking about when she posts these things. Not you. |
yep |
Yes, she's over 40. Her page doesn't look like she's trying to be an influencer. Her photography isn't that great. So I don't think that's it. |
She's on Tiktok but doesn't post as much there. |
Great. I thought it might be something like that. |