Note to the person who asked about UVA clubs— the student government is in large part responsible for distributing the funds for clubs. So not a bad idea to run for or get to know your rep. That person will be valued in most clubs, I would imagine. They are in a position to ensure funding |
I’m glad he will. Good for him! |
This makes no sense |
This person ^^ still thinks it is a meritocracy. They must have some intellectual or emotional investment in that myth. |
Lol. No it isn't. It is precisely how things are. You just have no familiarity with it. |
It makes all the sense in the world. This is exactly how it works. And I'm not PP. |
I'm the PP you are responding to- I mentioned in a previous post that DD had been recruited as a D3 athlete. Williams was one of the schools which recruited her. Maybe Williams itself would have been better for her, maybe being a college athlete would have been better, or maybe it would have been a bust anyway. That's the thing about life- you don't know how it's going to work out until after you've made your choices. |
I'm the Yale alumna mom who posted. That's the vibe I get from my DD, and while I hate to give credence to the PP you're replying to, I agree that there are very few things that help someone escape their spot in the pecking order. My DD's "regular people" friends who broke into more rarefied circles or found opportunities at Yale were from basic places looked and acted MC when they arrived but were crazy new rich and could follow alongside the other rich kids (fancy trips, NYC weekends, etc.), were athletes, or they were women who were gorgeous. I have a younger DD whose friends' parents are totally consumed by college sports recruiting, and I don't blame them. Being on a varsity team seems to afford students more social mobility and opportunities at elite colleges. |
It all sounds so intimidating to me. I’m sure this is the way it is, it’s just disheartening. I could never live up to that lifestyle! My kid goes to a large OOS university, but was interested in a few smaller colleges that had reputations of wealthy, cliquey students. I don’t know how it would have worked out socially. |
There are 850+ clubs. Other than club sports which are very competitive (and often national champs) there are maybe 50 that are competitive (probably less). |
Madison House is not open to all. I’ve heard of a few kids who were not able to participate |
That’s too bad. I’m the poster that asked about UVA. We were told club swim is open to all but obviously not all attend some of the big meets. This might be a deal breaker if it’s not really open to all just for practices. |
Not a thing at CTCL's.
Snooty posters can make fun of them all they want. My kid wanted a welcoming community and that is what she found at her SLAC t. from that list. I don't think clubs that receive school funding are even allowed to exclude anyone. |
Do you realize what an ugly, inhumane, transactional society people like this yield? Thank God they are in the minority. Let them rub elbows with each other, and always wonder why their "friends" and romantic partners are with them. ROI is really the way some people make all life decisions, I guess, which is capitalism taken to a pathological level. |
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