I grew up in a house with only one bathroom, so of course we all shared. But I don't remember going into my parent's bedroom unless it was to talk to them. Why else would I need anything from their room? DH was the same way.
Now we have declared the entire basement of our house a kid free zone. The kids are not to go down there unless invited. There is nothing to entice them to go down their either, it is our bedroom, the guest bedroom/office, bathroom, and small tv area. It is nice to have our own space that we can relax in and not worry about child proofing or noise after the kids go to sleep. Boundaries are healthy. |
I have a husband and two sons and I am the only woman in my house. And? |
Us, too. Yay!--we are not alone. |
So those of us who value space for ourselves are not writing intelligent responses? A different perspective is indicative of lack of intelligence? DH, DS, and I live in an 1800ft Cape Cod, 3br, 2ba. I lived in a 2br, 1ba apartment until college with two older brothers and both parents. I didn't get my own room until my oldest brother moved out at 18 and my middle brother moved to the day bed in the dining room, when he was in 10th grade and I was in 9th. I hated sharing a bathroom with 4 other people. Even when my brother slept in another room (poor guy had NO privacy) he had to store his stuff in mine so it was never truly my own. We have only one TV, and we never plan to have DS have his own TV or laptop in his room. We do things as a family. But out master bathroom is just for grownups. That is not unintelligent and we aren't McMansionized. |