You are right, it depends on your definition of child friendly. I was referring to birth rate which reflects the cultural and economic ability to have more or less kids. By that definition, a populus choosing not to have children, was the basis of my remarks not necessarily the ability to graciously host (Japanese) or tolerate screaming. |
Most of these posters just seem to be misanthropes. I can't remember the last time I was bothered by other kids when out in public. The story from a PP about the 10-year old in the hardware store though, that was pretty awful. |
+1000!! |
Agreed -way worse in London, just returned. I actually find Americans really love children and are more tolerant than many other cultures. |
And, by the way, I'm about as American as you get and had babies, toddlers, kids of all ages running around at my wedding. Most of my friends have done this as well.. and I won't be vulgar with a price tag, but very nice weddings. |
I haven't read all the replies, but I am an American, and I agree with you. I will say this attitude varies regionally and probably with social class. The posts I read on DCUM are far far more hostile towards children's mere presence than I experienced growing up in a fairly small southern town.
I don't understand the need to constantly partition off children from the rest of life. I'm not talking about badly behaved children-- just children period. Sure, there are some events that are not child friendly, but many people on DCUM act like traveling with small kids or having them present at baby showers/funerals/etc is at best highly inconvenient and at worst unacceptable. I just don't get it, and I felt the same way long before I was a parent. Kids are people, too. |
So you are of the children-should-be-seen-and-not-heard school? |
Totally agree! |
I'm pretty sure that the flight attendant wouldn't let you make your kid stabs for an entire flight. You know, seatbelt signs and all? |
*stand, not stabs |
Obviously you have not been around many asian children under the age of 5. I am asian and the traditional approach seems to be to let the children grow up unfettered by discipline and rules until they reach school age. Until then they are wild little stinkers. Once they get to school age they seem to settle down. |
I wonder why the childfree types have more tolerance for some drunk and/or shrieking 20-something in Clarendon than they do with a 3-5 year old being somewhat exuberant. |
YOU may have thought it was nice, PP. But trust me when I say that once your guests leave, the gossip begins. And I am certain that people were commenting on the chaos that results from "child-friendly" weddings. |
Obviously, you seem to think you can speak for ALL Asian cultures. b/c we all know that Koreans are EXACTLY like the Japanese |
Of course. They learn from this if their parents are there. I have conversations with adults that are awkward and irritating and I suspect they spent their Tweens in the basement.
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