Did you miss how they clog the way and make everyone go around them? Its obnoxious. Guess you live in a place devoid of families. |
Same. I bring them when appropriate and don’t when it’s not. I can get many things done quicker and more efficiently when they stay home with spouse. Then we can spend actual quality time together after. I also don’t view taking the family to a doctor appointment together as time well spent. |
Was the mayor's husband babysitting them? It is a strange logical leap to read a news story like that and decide your kids will never have a babysitter. |
Why are you so bothered by having to go around them? Just go around them. Can you not walk? Maybe you can should move somewhere devoid of families. |
I have 3 kids. I keep my kids out of the way when we are out together. We don’t all hold hands demanding people get out of our way. It's not hard to pay attention to your surroundings and not be a selfish jerk. We see you. You seem very upset a oit this. |
One has nothing to do with the other but yes, I stayed at activities till they were much older, maybe 12. The real world is not a good place. You’ve been lucky. Yes, I will protect mine as much as I can a I live in a very different world then you. |
You really think this stuff doesn’t happen? |
What’s the difference if you have one or three! No matter the amount we never used a babysitter. No family who would help. Why not take the kids to spend time with them! |
Did you mean to respond to the other poster or are you just confused? |
Yes you do. Paranoia and delusion |
DP but I feel bad for your kids. I see these news articles about children abducted, molested, bullied and assume they have parents like you. |
I am not talking about me. I already said I have a big age gap. I will get slammed but I stopped working when I had my third but I kept my nanny so I can take older kids to sports without dragging a sleeping baby. I kept the nanny to continue to cook and clean and so I can do things without kids or without all my kids. We know families who come as a package. This is more for younger kids. My older kids are now in middle and high school. My youngest is 7. My 7 year old has friends whose friends always bring their siblings to everything. Sometimes it is annoying but I know if we hang out with Kate, her brother will be coming too. |
People are dumb. Why do I see a single mom on Nextdoor with 4 kids begging gore money and food and clothing and housing? Didn’t she notice after the first or even second kid that kids are very expensive and make life much harder? |
Because they aren’t invited. |
It’s not anti children to have a culture that offers both kid welcome and adult only weddings. |