OP don’t be disappointed if the fancy activity camps don’t meet your inflated expectations. Just an honest FYI. |
What is wrong with you? Who gives a shit what your kid does over the summer? Why should she hide it? She's 10. You are gross |
I’m a parent who tells my kid “X sport camp is expensive. I’m signing you up because I think you’re ready to take care of your equipment and listen to your coaches. Do your best and have fun! Also don’t brag about it.” And “We are traveling to Iceland this year. You are lucky! I didn’t travel until I was in high school. And don’t front.” And we often talk about what other kids did because they share at circle time and I comment that things others did are cool or fun so it’s not all about what we did. |
+1 And explain it's not polite to brag and how that makes others feel about her! It makes them dislike her, which is probably the opposite reaction she would want by bragging, so this is good for her to know. |
I find this weird and also like you are insecure. Not neccessary to add in the costs. Leaving it at "take care of your equipment and listen to your coach" is fine. Would you not expect that at a lower cost camp? Ditto to your travel. Its not relevant that this is a more expensive trip than you ever took. The expectations should be the same. And they are lucky for the experience, not the price tag. |
Lol Iceland sucks as a family vacation
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Sounds like kind of an insecure, nasty, overbearing way of approaching things. |
no u r groce. ew u smell. |
+1!!!! |
This, unless your kids are into hiking and sightseeing...a thousand waterfalls. |
Maybe other kids were coaching their kids to be “gentle” when talking about how their dads were around all last summer to ride bikes in the evenings, go to their swim meets, and tuck them in each and every night. So I guess maybe other people have had to be tactful about your family’s sensitive spots too, eh? Are you gettting yet how obnoxious you are acting? |
I think it sounds awesome. Some of you sound v jealous. |
I find this odd too. The only time I ever tell my kid something is expensive or exclusive is to impart a sense of responsibility on them. As in “I invested in this opportunity for you and I want you to get the most out of it you can / try your hardest / take it seriously”. Even then it’s not communicated in a way that we’re better than others because we can choose some expensive activities. It’s communicated that the adults of the household have made an investment of time, money, or effort that is expensive TO US and we would appreciate our children show us an equivalent investment in effort and appreciation. If it’s something they were selected for, we help them understand that other children wanted to participate and did not get that chance. |
Haha noted. We didn’t actually travel to Iceland, but just an example. |
That is what I said: “ X sport camp is expensive. I’m signing you up because I think you’re ready to take care of your equipment and listen to your coaches. Do your best and have fun!” I do think mentioning high cost or unusual opportunity to be more motivating than saying “Take care of your equipment,” for my kid at least. |