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Ex is trying to black mail me
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Anonymous
| By contacting my family. He asking for naked pictures in exchange to not do this. My parents will be so upset if he does contact them because I am from a very tradition background. Please give advice. I'm so scared. |
Anonymous
| Do not send him naked pictures. Then he can doubly or triply blackmail you. Call the police. |
Anonymous
| Did he send you this request in am email or text? Do you have it recorded? |
Anonymous
Yes in a text |
Anonymous
| I'd contact the cops. |
Anonymous
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Get his address and send your brothers after him.
But seriously - if you give him pictures that will only embolden him and give him more leverage to use against you. You think your parents will be made if he calls them? Imagine what would happen if he sent them a picture of your naked breasts? Get some male relatives to beat him to a pulp. Or you could change your number, email address and lock your facebook. |
Anonymous
| Call. The. Cops. Immediately. |
Anonymous
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The only valid response to blackmail attempts: "f*ck you"
Tell your parents to ignore him, or that he's full of shit. |
Anonymous
| Extortion is illegal. Tell him the police will be contacted if he ever contacts you or your family ever again. What he has done is called extortion and you will prosecute to full extent of law. |
Anonymous
| What is he going to contact your family about? |
Anonymous
i'm gonna guess op is an asian or arab chic and her ex is a white or black guy. and she's shit scared that her parents will find out she was getting f-ed by said ex. |
Anonymous
| What is so scary about him contacting them? |
Anonymous
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OP, the correct response to none. Let him broadcast whatever information he wants. Perhaps your family will be devastated and ashamed, as mine would! But in the end, I know my family would rather this happen than see me fall into greater trouble with a disturbed and manipulative man. As the Duke of Wellington put it in 1824, at a time when the UK was very conservative: "Publish and be damned." He went on to become Prime Minister, while his blackmailers were ruined by libel suits and died in obscurity. |
Anonymous
| Why is it a big deal he contact your family? |
Anonymous
Yes I'm Arab. My dad would probably never speak to me again. |