Boyfriend broke up with me 30 minutes before we were supposed to leave for a trip!

[Anonymous]

And I charged the hotel expense on my credit card! We talked last night and everything seemed fine. This morning 30 minutes before I am supposed to meet him I get an email that he needs to leave the country asap. He's emailing me from the airport. I have a feeling he's bsing me. What a shitty thing to do to someone(

[Anonymous]

Op here: his excuse was there's a family emergency in my home country.

[Anonymous]

So, did he break up with you or did he just pull a Chandler Bing and head off to Yemen?

Sure is shitty.

[Anonymous]

Well, did he break up with you or does he have a family emergency?

Do you think his family emergency is an excuse to not accompany you on this trip?

Is it because he can't pay for his share? Or something else?

I'm not sure this is a break-up, OP.

[Anonymous]

Why would he wait to get to the airport to email me? We live in DC and airport is in Dulles. He couldn't call me on the way to the airport? Does anyone else think this is shady?

[Anonymous]

No one I know would email such as an excuse. Something of this nature warrants at least a phone call.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:
Well, did he break up with you or does he have a family emergency?

Do you think his family emergency is an excuse to not accompany you on this trip?

Is it because he can't pay for his share? Or something else?

I'm not sure this is a break-up, OP.

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Op here : this isn't the first time he has given me lame excuses.

[Anonymous]

That stinks. Hopefully the hotel expense will be a fair trade off for having him out of your life.

[Anonymous]

Yeah, he's shacking up with someone else.

[Anonymous]

Be glad that you are rid of the loser now and he showed his true colors before you were saddled with him for life.

[Anonymous]

Can you call a girlfriend? Call her over and invite her for a girl's night. Ask her to bring some wine, champagne, ice cream and pizza/sushi. Then sit back and enjoy and be sure to post to instagram so the loser can see what he's missing out on. Enjoy.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:
Well, did he break up with you or does he have a family emergency?

Do you think his family emergency is an excuse to not accompany you on this trip?

Is it because he can't pay for his share? Or something else?

I'm not sure this is a break-up, OP.

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Op here : this isn't the first time he has given me lame excuses.

So if he didn't break up with you, YOU have to do the breaking-up, because this needs to stop.

[Anonymous]

Thats shitty of him but you should go on the trip yourself.

Have a great time, it would be the best revenge.

[Anonymous]

It doesn't sound like he broke up with you but strange he didn't call you.

I don't have anyone in my personal life like this but I once had an employee who would often lie about family emergencies. She even lied about a death in the family. I would never doubt someone is lying of a death but her friend later told me that her father is alive. It's just bad karma.

[Anonymous]

What was the emergency? Did he tell you?