What's going on with her?

[Anonymous]

Young (21) year old in need of some mature advice. Thanks.

So the girl i was seeing ended things with me a few weeks ago. She apologized a week later for overreacting pretty much. I responded back but then she went days without saying anything. After 4 days she asked to see me but I just was still pissed about the whole to be honest so I wasn't receptive. Anyways she and I haven't talked in weeks. Based on her snaps she seems just fine.

On Tuesday I get text from her saying hey headed home (she lives a few hours away) I left some stuff for you by the front door. I told my roommate to go outside and check and to bring it in. I replied back ok thanks. A few minutes later I sent her another text saying that my roommate just told me and that I was in Dover (her city). All she said back was no problem...okay cool.

I get back to my town today and in the bag she has a note that says hope all is well. It's been a while. Ran into your roommate this weekend and heard that you're moving soon. I was just concerned so I go you a few pick me ups. Could be wrong and if I am just take it as a housewarming and pay it forward.

What the heck?

[Anonymous]

I am confused

[Anonymous]

Me too.

[Anonymous]

Seems like she still cares but that's as far as it goes.

[Anonymous]

Well when you said you were in her city and she didn't bite, that's not a good sign. As she said she was concerned so I'm sure she still cares but I don't think she wants to be with you.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I am confused

+ 1 Too much drama regardless. If you broke up, stay that way. You're young, there are plenty of other young women to date.

[Anonymous]

Guy here. It's over so just move on. Learn the lesson - don't act like an asshat and grow up. Learn to actually communicate when you have a disagreement or an argument - you know, actually talking it through.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Guy here. It's over so just move on. Learn the lesson - don't act like an asshat and grow up. Learn to actually communicate when you have a disagreement or an argument - you know, actually talking it through.

But why are you saying it's over?

[Anonymous]

What is she concerned about? That you are moving? That she hasn't spoken to you?

[Anonymous]

Do you want to be with her or not? I can't tell.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:What is she concerned about? That you are moving? That she hasn't spoken to you?

Just about my well being hence the pick me up stuff in the bag

[Anonymous]

First, she is a woman, not a girl.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:First, she is a woman, not a girl.

Geeze is that big of a deal? Either you're going to answer his question or not.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:First, she is a woman, not a girl.

Geeze is that big of a deal? Either you're going to answer his question or not.

NP here. PP is doing OP a favor -- it's an important distinction.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:First, she is a woman, not a girl.

Geeze is that big of a deal? Either you're going to answer his question or not.

NP here. PP is doing OP a favor -- it's an important distinction.

Its an important distinction when and if she ever matures and actually starts acting like a grown person. Her behavior per OP's post doesn't sound like a grown person to me.