Oh. Well, I don’t think she’s funny. And her story was weak. If I’m worse, so be it. I won’t be meeting any of you for lunch anytime soon. |
You people are off the chain. Good Lord. |
Thank God. |
36 pages because adults have friends and don’t invite the whole class to their birthday party?
I don’t understand how a group of people OP knows getting together socially without inviting her makes it a clique. A clique would be if they stood in a circle at the bus stop and excluded OP by ignoring her or if they all openly make plans together at the bus stop and purposely don’t include OP. |
I drink alcohol probably six times a year, and I wouldn't think it was weird at all to have lunch at a winery and have a glass of wine at noon. That isn't strange. |
Why are you so defensive if she was just joking? I thought people were being blasted for not feeling sorry for her. Now we're supposed to be laughing at her lame joke? Obviously it's a poorly written post if nobody can even agree what the point was. |
WTF is #momtribe? I wouldn't be caught dead saying that. And I think OP is off base. |
Even if they were her two best friends on the planet, why would they have to invite her to an activity they were invited to? That's not how things work. My best friend does things without me all the time and I don't cry about it. |
Indeed. That is because you have formed a clique, and she is not in it. Must see a lot of yourself in this string. Other will jump in for sure and +1 you and commend you for being so bold as to not feel awkward, nor invite her over to your grown up girls gang. |
I am a 45 year old woman. I do not form cliques. There are women I am friends with and hang out with sometimes. I do not feel the need to invite someone to a friend lunch just because we have a child in the same grade. I have three kids. I have a few mom friends in each of my kids’ grades. The friend I will usually meet would be a group of 2-3. That kindergarten mom’s outing was a one time thing. Since I have 3 kids, my kids have been in preschool at different times. I often hung out with the preschool moms of my oldest. With my youngest, I was not invited to anything. This may have had to do with Covid. I also think the dynamic is different when other families have babies and toddlers and I had two older boys in elementary. Shrug. I don’t take it personally. |
+1 Stay in your lane, OP. Lest you get run over. |
This is a completely stable response |
Potatoes. |
+1! |
Indeed. Eagle snafu. |