Our son was competitive for admissions to TJ and he wasn't interested at all. It would have been a miserable commute from our house in Centreville. I wish there was a western FCPS high school that was similar to TJ! It really is a hard slog with modern traffic from most parts of Fairfax. |
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Sorry it was 1/3 of last year's freshman class (33%) that was reported to need remedial help. My kid was not one of them, but was surprised the number was so big at a math and science magnet school. |
This is absolutely true. And as one of my Japanese friends told me, she had to learn social skills and learning not to overdo the pressure when she was in college and beyond. |
It really is a mindset and in saying this it is not intended as a value judgement. My son went to TJ. It was a long trek for him and on top of this the rigorous academic requirements at TJ had him working some long hours especially in his junior year. He went on to medical school and is currently doing his residency at one of the most prestigious programs in the country and will be done soon. He says that TJ was the best thing that happened to him. He literally breezed through his undergrad. He said it was a lot easier than TJ from an academic standpoint in terms of the pressure .... and he completed his undergrad in three years! Given where he is today, ask him whether he has any regrets about the long commute and the academic demands that TJ made on him and he would give an unqualified response that TJ was a huge help to him in getting where he is today. Could he have done it in a different academic environment? More than likely he could have. But that does not take anything away from the role TJ played in getting him to where he is today. None of the above is meant as a brag ..... after all, I am posting anonymously. It is merely intended as a perspective on how some parents and their children view the downsides (commuting, new friends, academic pressures) of going to TJ. |
Yes...but you only live once. Do you want your children to be absolutely miserable for 4 years of high school? |
Agreed. Whites will be in the minority in this country in the next 30 to 40 years. China and India will continue to surpass U.S. while whites will continue to watch other countries excel and surpass while being lazy. |
PP here. Most kids who go to TJ are by no means miserable there. I know my son loved it and looks on it fondly to this day ...... as do his friends who went there. Don't equate an academically challenging environment and a long commute with being miserable. |
Why do you assume it will be absolutely miserable? Some kids use the commute time to read, do home work or sleep. TJ is miserable only if the student is not smart enough to keep up. Smart kids thrive and they are happy that they are finally challenged academically and have academic peers. In fact, TJ students participate in more clubs, sports etc. than any other county schools since they have 8th activity period built in to the schedule. |
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If your DC doesn't like TJ they can always transition back to base school - or likely be well accepted at any number of private schools. |
I so wish people would learn how to communicate in English before badgering others about their shortcomings. Perhaps you could just type in your native language and let those of us who hate to see our language butchered decide whether we want to use translation software. |
Here is what the principal had to say about it in the March 2013 PTSA newsletter:
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NP here. My kid goes to a magnet program in MCPS, MD. I am reading this thread because I was very interested in knowing the demographics as well. My kid is in a similar position as the pp's child. What she has to do for HS is incredibly tough. She is a Junior now and she works harder than I ever worked in my years of college. She wants to go to medical field as well, and I know that she will not crumble in undergrad the first time she has to sit in an organic chemistry class. Yes, in some ways the 4 years of HS were different from the HS experience of the average kids for my DD and her peers. But, it was not because they had to deal with the crap that regular kids have to deal with - hooking up, partying, bullying, not fitting in, being marginalized etc. - it was tough because of the extremely tough courses they had to take and the hours they had to put in daily. Couple that with the EC they had to do, SATs, APs, IBs, college applications etc... and it was beyond hard. It is rare when my kid has slept at a decent hour during the week, or had a full night's rest. Her life revolves around studying, activities and catching up on sleep. Does she get to spend time with her friends in the program? Surprisingly yes! These kids go to Homecoming, Prom and other stuff - but they have to plan it MONTHS in advance. They go as a group for homecoming, proms etc...so the pressure of asking someone to be their date is not there. I think that this was the best thing that could happen to my daughter because the education she got and the work ethic that HS instilled is going to see her through for the rest of her life. I keep hearing how the magnet kids are nerds and socially awkward - but I do not buy this at all, because I see the most socially conscious, introspective, supportive and confident group of teenagers in her program. I do admit that they do not have the time to have romantic relationships, smoke, drink, take drugs or have sex - and I as a parent could not be happier! Another PP said that this is a cultural Asian thing (to emphasize academics) - but I see all Whites, Blacks and Hispanics in the program doing the exact same thing - so I do not buy the race argument. Any child, of any race/heritage, has to work extremely hard if they are in any magnet program in the country. |
Really? Then why is this country so attractive to so many people? Really? |