Anonymous wrote:Kindness. They must each show genuine interest and affection to the other. Celebrate their goals and successes, sympathize during their defeats.
If it is framed as a competition it's going to suck. If we think of the situation in the extreme it might be helpful. If one child had down syndrome or was profoundly delayed in some other way, how would things go? In this case the gap is smaller, but kindness is key.
Why must they show anything at all? They didn’t vote for this, adults did.
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