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My daughters ages 7 and 5 recently were invited to a neighborhood pool party and one of our neighbor's homes. At first it was just a bunch of kids having fun. Then one of the young boys (maybe 3) stipped down to his birthday suit. Then more and more of the kids begin to do this. The parents there seemed to think this was just plain cute. I resisted until my girls were one of the few wearing suits. I finally let them stip down as well. The kids ranged from around 2 to 9 and were boys and girls. I was really uncomfortable with other parents seeing my girls naked, but the kids themselves had a blast. It was just good fun for them and there was nothing sexual about it.
Big deal? Was it bad that I gave in, or am I just being prudish? |
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why didn't the parents get naked and join in?
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| sounds creepy. also sounds like a fake post. |
| Mm. Nt a big deal either way. I wouldn't say it was bad you have in, but next time I think you should stick to your instincts and firmly say no |
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Since you were there watching, it seems okay. If my children came home and told me they had a nudist party, I would definitely be unhappy. But you were there.
I guess it's the ages that bother me, and the mix of genders. Yes, there was nothing sexual about it. But the 9 year olds are on the cusp of puberty. |
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My sister has a pool at her house and it's always used by whole block. It's common "knowledge" that at anytime kids under 5 will be naked in the pool. Her kids learned to swim that way, mine did. All the neighbors kids.
Her pool is just so inviting. We are always there. |
| Nine might be a little old for that... my 9 yr. old would rather die than get naked in front of a group. But then, I guess if the kids were comfortable, its ok. You were there, and so were the other parents. That's what makes it ok. Had you NOT been there, it would be different. |
I don't think it is a fake post. I thinks its real and if you can't provide a helpful opinion for OP, don't bother commenting. Look at how many people have viewed this post and declined to answer. Seems they were able to do what YOU were not. TROLL. |
I'm just not picturing this. They need swim diapers until they're potty trained, and then they swim naked for approximately 2-3 years until they turn 5? |
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I hope this post is fake.
If not then you are disgusting. Please tell other parents about your practices before they leave their kids with you. Peer pressure is one heck of a thing. I wouldn't want my kids to be pressured into your perversions. How do you know if there were any pedos in the group? Even if they weren't, you are all sick and should be arrested. A bunch of grown ass people laughing around a bunch of naked kids. |
| I'd be worried about the sun exposure, but as long as none of the kids felt coerced and there were no inappropriate actions by the adults (since you were there you'd know) seems fine to me. |
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Perfectly fine.
But then I have never understood Americans' prudishness. You would see much more on display on many French beaches. |
| Stop with your fake postings OP. You are a perv, always coming up with stories of adults seeing naked girls. Quit it! |
You say that as if it's a virtue. |
This. Sorry, we teach our kids not to show their privates to anyone, no pulling down pants, flashing bottoms, etc. I cant believe you'd sit there and allow your girls to participate. I dont care if all the kids were doing it. We teach ours to be leaders, not followers! I call this a fake post as well |