Are you Canadian? If so, you should be ashamed for being such a snob As a Canadian, I'm embarrassed for you |
Why are you so sure they have regrets? |
They cry all the time that we don't see them and they wish they were more a part of the children's lives. |
Any country can have snobs. What flawed thinking you have. |
You idiots. Poison the well at the start of the ONE relationship, over money. And not Forbes cover person money. That’s planning to fail. |
In our marriage there is no "his and hers". Everything is ours including inheritances we have received. |
Which is just great if you don’t bring much to the table. |
I work full time. My H had no problem signing a prenup. I think a woman does herself a disservice by being a SAHM and leaves herself vulnerable if a divorce does happen. My parents are still married after 35 years. I have been married for 2 years, brother is divorced and another brother who has never been married. |
The ONE relationship? No such thing in my experience. |
Isn't 100k in Canadian dollars like 150 USD? |
How many people are you considering asking to a sign a prenup? See, generally thinking of a prenup is an indication of starting a marriage, with one person. |
Most people would not start a business venture with their best friend without out some type of contract.
I really don't understand why marriage is any different. It seems to be the only financial arrangements where it is seen as poor taste to formalize the expectations in advance. |
Because you are putting a price on what someone - mostly women - are worth. And people always think they are worth more than they are. |
NP. From what you've written on this thread, and maybe it's just how you're phrasing things, you don't seem like a very kind person. It's been 20 years and you're still holding a grudge against the people who raised your DH? To the point where you keep their grandchildren from them? What lessons do you think your kids are absorbing from all of that? I suspect it's not "don't sign a prenup." |
+1 Twenty years is a long time to hold a grudge. |