Bisexual woman with a question for the broader LGBT community

[Anonymous]

I'm bi, or was once actively, but I wasn't accepted by lesbians because I'd have sex with men. And back in the 90's it was hard to find other bi women. I've been happily married to a man for 27 years and I'm happily monogamous. If something were to happen in our marriage I'd be willing to consider getting involved with a woman.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:As an older lesbian, I've watched younger women assume the bi label because it's cool. They fool around with women, because why not? But they don't actually imagine they will live their life with a woman.

You're getting rebuffed by women who are looking for a relationship, not just a romp in the hay. They don't trust that you will go through with that level of commitment.

+1000

+2000 I don't know any woman who identifies as bi who is with a woman. Zero. Only ones I know are married to cis-het men.