Realized DS was having son was having $ex in his car (found the condom wrapper.) His girlfriend isn't allowed to be at our house if we aren't here....and her parents don't want him there if they aren't home....
I have a feeling once he gets to college... |
He’s gonna do what every college student does? |
I honestly do not understand this point of view. What's wrong with safe, consensual sex? Why not let your teen have sex at home in their bed with the door closed? Better that than in a car, or some other dirty unsafe place. |
No, she isn't to my knowledge, but she did ask me if I could buy her a vibrator. I did, so of course I know she has one. |
There's always a few kids in HS whose parents are never around, so that house is the hookup house. There's also:
place of employment school facilities after hours after school activity facility secluded park/woods driving to motel (seriously) cousin's best friend's cousin's house |
This has to be a teen posting. There's many dangers: emotional fallout when the relationship sours, improper use of b.c. leading to pregnancy or sti, becoming subject of gossip at school which leads to bullying, etc. It seems many of the teen suicides that make the news have some element of romance gone bad or sexual embarrassment. |
WTF? When in the history of ever has a child asked their mother to buy her a vibrator!??! |
Mine asked me for one. . .and I only feel grateful that she and I have developed the kind of relationship where she feels comfortable asking for something like that. I don't know details, or pry - allow her privacy - but she definitely knows that I will answer anything and be available to help her with anything. |
Omg honestly I never thought about getting my teen daughter a vibrator but now I am.
So she can lay off wanting to be with any one pump chumps that don’t try and make her feel good anyway. Very powerful |
Better in your own house than in a car or public place etc. That's my thinking, better to be in a safe place. |
WTF? How is it the majority of moms in my peer/friends group have bought their daughter one? I thought most progressive moms were doing this! How is this strange?? |
Bingo! |
Actually, “I was a bad kid and refuse to openly accept that many teens behave/d better than me because the reality makes me feel like a piece of shit.” |
But isn’t the sneaking around part of the fun of sex as a teen? It was for me. |
But…it’s not bad to have sex. |