If your teen is sexually active...

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Anonymous wrote:OP, they are having sex already. Teens always figure it out.

Honest question. What was going through your head when you typed and posted this? Was it "my kid deceives me and so OP is likewise deceived"? Was it "OP forgot to ask "is my kid having sex" so I will just answer the question I thought she should have asked"?

I am seriously dying to know what is behind these dumb pointless responses!

I think it's just the naive confidence of OP, some things teens keep private and getting a play by play from your teen isnt healthy either. Even if they haven't done the big IT, they're having some form of sex, oral sex, HJs, etc. And where is that occurring? If they've figured that out, they'll figure out where to have the big IT.

DP. Wrong again. Many aren’t. My friends and I didn’t.

If OP thinks her teen might have sex soon, their teen has done "stuff." Sexual exploration is a progressive process when it's healthy. You don't go from kissing to sex.

We don’t know that. It’s JUST an assumption.

they've been together for a year. I mean come on. For every person that says I never did anything, there are 9 that did.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:OP, they are having sex already. Teens always figure it out.

Honest question. What was going through your head when you typed and posted this? Was it "my kid deceives me and so OP is likewise deceived"? Was it "OP forgot to ask "is my kid having sex" so I will just answer the question I thought she should have asked"?

I am seriously dying to know what is behind these dumb pointless responses!

I think it's just the naive confidence of OP, some things teens keep private and getting a play by play from your teen isnt healthy either. Even if they haven't done the big IT, they're having some form of sex, oral sex, HJs, etc. And where is that occurring? If they've figured that out, they'll figure out where to have the big IT.

DP. Wrong again. Many aren’t. My friends and I didn’t.

If OP thinks her teen might have sex soon, their teen has done "stuff." Sexual exploration is a progressive process when it's healthy. You don't go from kissing to sex.

We don’t know that. It’s JUST an assumption.

they've been together for a year. I mean come on. For every person that says I never did anything, there are 9 that did.

Wrong.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:OP, they are having sex already. Teens always figure it out.

Honest question. What was going through your head when you typed and posted this? Was it "my kid deceives me and so OP is likewise deceived"? Was it "OP forgot to ask "is my kid having sex" so I will just answer the question I thought she should have asked"?

I am seriously dying to know what is behind these dumb pointless responses!

I think it's just the naive confidence of OP, some things teens keep private and getting a play by play from your teen isnt healthy either. Even if they haven't done the big IT, they're having some form of sex, oral sex, HJs, etc. And where is that occurring? If they've figured that out, they'll figure out where to have the big IT.

DP.

The responses here indicate there are MANY naive parents of teens out there.

Your little children are teens now. Yes, teens think about SEX. Many try it before they get to college.

That’s just a fact. Sorry, not sorry.

And it’s a FACT that many don’t.

Sorry, not sorry.

Many parents who claim: “my child would never do THAT! Nooo - not my daughter; she will wait until her wedding night,”

- have teenage children who are having s*x.

You don’t know what you don’t know.

Nobody is denying the existence of bad kids.

You think teens have sex are bad kids lol

There are A LOT of bad kids.

I am sorry but I am done with the shaming of teen sex. There is nothing wrong with it if two people consent.

And if you are an uptight mom, you are going to get kids that don't communicate with you and feel shame for no reason

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:OP, they are having sex already. Teens always figure it out.

Honest question. What was going through your head when you typed and posted this? Was it "my kid deceives me and so OP is likewise deceived"? Was it "OP forgot to ask "is my kid having sex" so I will just answer the question I thought she should have asked"?

I am seriously dying to know what is behind these dumb pointless responses!

I think it's just the naive confidence of OP, some things teens keep private and getting a play by play from your teen isnt healthy either. Even if they haven't done the big IT, they're having some form of sex, oral sex, HJs, etc. And where is that occurring? If they've figured that out, they'll figure out where to have the big IT.

DP.

The responses here indicate there are MANY naive parents of teens out there.

Your little children are teens now. Yes, teens think about SEX. Many try it before they get to college.

That’s just a fact. Sorry, not sorry.

And it’s a FACT that many don’t.

Sorry, not sorry.

Many parents who claim: “my child would never do THAT! Nooo - not my daughter; she will wait until her wedding night,”

- have teenage children who are having s*x.

You don’t know what you don’t know.

Nobody is denying the existence of bad kids.

You think teens have sex are bad kids lol

There are A LOT of bad kids.

I am sorry but I am done with the shaming of teen sex. There is nothing wrong with it if two people consent.

And if you are an uptight mom, [/b]you are going to get kids that don't communicate with you and feel shame for no reason [b]

Ha! My mother is like you and I barely speak to her.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:OP, they are having sex already. Teens always figure it out.

Honest question. What was going through your head when you typed and posted this? Was it "my kid deceives me and so OP is likewise deceived"? Was it "OP forgot to ask "is my kid having sex" so I will just answer the question I thought she should have asked"?

I am seriously dying to know what is behind these dumb pointless responses!

I think it's just the naive confidence of OP, some things teens keep private and getting a play by play from your teen isnt healthy either. Even if they haven't done the big IT, they're having some form of sex, oral sex, HJs, etc. And where is that occurring? If they've figured that out, they'll figure out where to have the big IT.

DP.

The responses here indicate there are MANY naive parents of teens out there.

Your little children are teens now. Yes, teens think about SEX. Many try it before they get to college.

That’s just a fact. Sorry, not sorry.

And it’s a FACT that many don’t.

Sorry, not sorry.

Many parents who claim: “my child would never do THAT! Nooo - not my daughter; she will wait until her wedding night,”

- have teenage children who are having s*x.

You don’t know what you don’t know.

Nobody is denying the existence of bad kids.

You think teens have sex are bad kids lol

There are A LOT of bad kids.

I am sorry but I am done with the shaming of teen sex. There is nothing wrong with it if two people consent.

And if you are an uptight mom, [/b]you are going to get kids that don't communicate with you and feel shame for no reason [b]

Ha! My mother is like you and I barely speak to her.

Wait, you are the mom that keeps coming on the threads to shame girls and teen sex and have this holier than thou attitude and now you are saying your mom communicated with you in high school and didn't shame you and for that, you don't speak to her now. Yeah sure

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:OP, they are having sex already. Teens always figure it out.

Honest question. What was going through your head when you typed and posted this? Was it "my kid deceives me and so OP is likewise deceived"? Was it "OP forgot to ask "is my kid having sex" so I will just answer the question I thought she should have asked"?

I am seriously dying to know what is behind these dumb pointless responses!

I think it's just the naive confidence of OP, some things teens keep private and getting a play by play from your teen isnt healthy either. Even if they haven't done the big IT, they're having some form of sex, oral sex, HJs, etc. And where is that occurring? If they've figured that out, they'll figure out where to have the big IT.

DP. Wrong again. Many aren’t. My friends and I didn’t.

If OP thinks her teen might have sex soon, their teen has done "stuff." Sexual exploration is a progressive process when it's healthy. You don't go from kissing to sex.

We don’t know that. It’s JUST an assumption.

they've been together for a year. I mean come on. For every person that says I never did anything, there are 9 that did.

Wrong.

You are in for quite a surprise.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:OP, they are having sex already. Teens always figure it out.

Honest question. What was going through your head when you typed and posted this? Was it "my kid deceives me and so OP is likewise deceived"? Was it "OP forgot to ask "is my kid having sex" so I will just answer the question I thought she should have asked"?

I am seriously dying to know what is behind these dumb pointless responses!

I think it's just the naive confidence of OP, some things teens keep private and getting a play by play from your teen isnt healthy either. Even if they haven't done the big IT, they're having some form of sex, oral sex, HJs, etc. And where is that occurring? If they've figured that out, they'll figure out where to have the big IT.

DP.

The responses here indicate there are MANY naive parents of teens out there.

Your little children are teens now. Yes, teens think about SEX. Many try it before they get to college.

That’s just a fact. Sorry, not sorry.

And it’s a FACT that many don’t.

Sorry, not sorry.

Many parents who claim: “my child would never do THAT! Nooo - not my daughter; she will wait until her wedding night,”

- have teenage children who are having s*x.

You don’t know what you don’t know.

Nobody is denying the existence of bad kids.

In THIS country, particularly.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:OP, they are having sex already. Teens always figure it out.

Honest question. What was going through your head when you typed and posted this? Was it "my kid deceives me and so OP is likewise deceived"? Was it "OP forgot to ask "is my kid having sex" so I will just answer the question I thought she should have asked"?

I am seriously dying to know what is behind these dumb pointless responses!

I think it's just the naive confidence of OP, some things teens keep private and getting a play by play from your teen isnt healthy either. Even if they haven't done the big IT, they're having some form of sex, oral sex, HJs, etc. And where is that occurring? If they've figured that out, they'll figure out where to have the big IT.

DP.

The responses here indicate there are MANY naive parents of teens out there.

Your little children are teens now. Yes, teens think about SEX. Many try it before they get to college.

That’s just a fact. Sorry, not sorry.

And it’s a FACT that many don’t.

Sorry, not sorry.

Many parents who claim: “my child would never do THAT! Nooo - not my daughter; she will wait until her wedding night,”

- have teenage children who are having s*x.

You don’t know what you don’t know.

Nobody is denying the existence of bad kids.

You think teens have sex are bad kids lol

There are A LOT of bad kids.

I am sorry but I am done with the shaming of teen sex. There is nothing wrong with it if two people consent.

And if you are an uptight mom, [/b]you are going to get kids that don't communicate with you and feel shame for no reason [b]

Ha! My mother is like you and I barely speak to her.

Wait, you are the mom that keeps coming on the threads to shame girls and teen sex and have this holier than thou attitude and now you are saying your mom communicated with you in high school and didn't shame you and for that, you don't speak to her now. Yeah sure

That’s her narrative too.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:OP, they are having sex already. Teens always figure it out.

Honest question. What was going through your head when you typed and posted this? Was it "my kid deceives me and so OP is likewise deceived"? Was it "OP forgot to ask "is my kid having sex" so I will just answer the question I thought she should have asked"?

I am seriously dying to know what is behind these dumb pointless responses!

I think it's just the naive confidence of OP, some things teens keep private and getting a play by play from your teen isnt healthy either. Even if they haven't done the big IT, they're having some form of sex, oral sex, HJs, etc. And where is that occurring? If they've figured that out, they'll figure out where to have the big IT.

DP. Wrong again. Many aren’t. My friends and I didn’t.

If OP thinks her teen might have sex soon, their teen has done "stuff." Sexual exploration is a progressive process when it's healthy. You don't go from kissing to sex.

We don’t know that. It’s JUST an assumption.

they've been together for a year. I mean come on. For every person that says I never did anything, there are 9 that did.

Wrong.

You are in for quite a surprise.

No, and you’re too narcissistic to be in for a surprise. You’ll just keep lying.

[Anonymous]

They are doing it already inside your house. Facts.

[Anonymous]

Denial is not just a river in Africa.

[Anonymous]

Together a year and you are JUST talking about sex. 99% sure this ship has sailed and the girl will still act like “help me out for when I do” to avoid embarrassing both of you.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Denial is not just a river in Africa.

Nobody is denying that the “herpes crew” exists. They’re certainly having sex.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Denial is not just a river in Africa.

Nobody is denying that the “herpes crew” exists. They’re certainly having sex.

It's funny that moms like you think you are better than everyone and have kids that are better than everyone. I am sure you are raising wonderful caring human beings.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Meanwhile, in Europe, co-ed sleepovers from age 14-15 are common. Nudity at home promotes body positivity. Sex at home between teens (behind closed doors) is considered to be the safest place to do it. Condom dispensers are everywhere. Teen girls can walk to their local doctor and get their own birth control and the appointment costs nothing. Sex education begins in the 5/6th grades and continues at the 8th and 10th grades.

Meanwhile, in the Land of the Free and the Home of the Brave, we still have our collective heads stuck in the sands of religious purity culture.

Exactly, I grew up in Western Europe. There were 2,000 kids at my public high school in the burbs of a European capital city. Do you know how many girls had babies--this was in the mid90s- 1! That's how many, 1. A sibling and their SO had sex in sibling's room...I'll admit, one time my best friend called in a panic--her super catholic parents wouldn't let her have sex at home...well they had condom failure and she needed a safe place to take the morning after pill (that yes, she got no questions asked from the pharmacist) so she came to our house for the weekend...