Affirming, post-evangelical community

[Anonymous]

Gaychurch.org is a great resource for finding open and affirming churches!

[Anonymous]

I would recommend looking into Disciples of Christ. They tend to be on the "affirming" side of things (can vary though) and are usually much more contemporary than Episcopal or Lutheran churches and services would look more in line with what you would see at a non-denom. Otherwise your best bet would probably be UMC.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:For those curious about why we are making this choice or who is involved in it, that's not what this thread is about. I was just asking for recs. Not to go into my whole spiritual journey.

It is truly a lot to grieve and process and I don't want to do that here.

What church or denomination are you leaving?

Have you decided on a new church?

[Anonymous]

Leaving a non-denominational, reformed, Baptist-ish church. Have not decided on a new one. The thread has only been open like two days! I think it will be a process to find a new church home.

For someone wondering why it is a grieving process:
1) Leaving community you felt connected to and cared for is a significant loss in someone's life

Thanks for everyone with recs so far.
2) I can also grieve that I have participated in supporting beliefs that have harmed people

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Leaving a non-denominational, reformed, Baptist-ish church. Have not decided on a new one. The thread has only been open like two days! I think it will be a process to find a new church home.

For someone wondering why it is a grieving process:
1) Leaving community you felt connected to and cared for is a significant loss in someone's life

Thanks for everyone with recs so far.
2) I can also grieve that I have participated in supporting beliefs that have harmed people

Baptistish? There is no such thing, especially non-denominational. Baptists are not vague people.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Leaving a non-denominational, reformed, Baptist-ish church. Have not decided on a new one. The thread has only been open like two days! I think it will be a process to find a new church home.

For someone wondering why it is a grieving process:
1) Leaving community you felt connected to and cared for is a significant loss in someone's life

Thanks for everyone with recs so far.
2) I can also grieve that I have participated in supporting beliefs that have harmed people

New poster, and I totally understand this.
Wishing you well on your journey!

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Leaving a non-denominational, reformed, Baptist-ish church. Have not decided on a new one. The thread has only been open like two days! I think it will be a process to find a new church home.

For someone wondering why it is a grieving process:
1) Leaving community you felt connected to and cared for is a significant loss in someone's life

Thanks for everyone with recs so far.
2) I can also grieve that I have participated in supporting beliefs that have harmed people

Baptistish? There is no such thing, especially non-denominational. Baptists are not vague people.

Haha I mean not technically affiliated with a Baptist denomination but some Baptist beliefs, like believers baptism

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Leaving a non-denominational, reformed, Baptist-ish church. Have not decided on a new one. The thread has only been open like two days! I think it will be a process to find a new church home.

For someone wondering why it is a grieving process:
1) Leaving community you felt connected to and cared for is a significant loss in someone's life

Thanks for everyone with recs so far.
2) I can also grieve that I have participated in supporting beliefs that have harmed people

Baptistish? There is no such thing, especially non-denominational. Baptists are not vague people.

Haha I mean not technically affiliated with a Baptist denomination but some Baptist beliefs, like believers baptism

That doesn’t make sense. Baptists are Baptists.

Believer's baptism is one of several distinctive doctrines associated closely with Anabaptist (literally, rebaptizer) denominations, inclusive of Mennonites, Amish, Hutterites, Bruderhof, Schwarzenau Brethren, River Brethren, and Apostolic Christians.


Believer's baptism is also practiced by many Pentecostals.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Leaving a non-denominational, reformed, Baptist-ish church. Have not decided on a new one. The thread has only been open like two days! I think it will be a process to find a new church home.

For someone wondering why it is a grieving process:
1) Leaving community you felt connected to and cared for is a significant loss in someone's life

Thanks for everyone with recs so far.
2) I can also grieve that I have participated in supporting beliefs that have harmed people

Baptistish? There is no such thing, especially non-denominational. Baptists are not vague people.

Haha I mean not technically affiliated with a Baptist denomination but some Baptist beliefs, like believers baptism

That doesn’t make sense. Baptists are Baptists.

Believer's baptism is one of several distinctive doctrines associated closely with Anabaptist (literally, rebaptizer) denominations, inclusive of Mennonites, Amish, Hutterites, Bruderhof, Schwarzenau Brethren, River Brethren, and Apostolic Christians.


Believer's baptism is also practiced by many Pentecostals.

Why on earth are you berating OP and being nosy? It sounds like she is trying to keep details private. Respect that. Offer recommendations or move on.

[Anonymous]

Have you looked at ELCA? For example:
https://www.holytrinityfallschurch.org/who-we-are

I don't know exactly what you are looking for in scripture, but this place is definitely affirming, and has a more modern music / style to the service.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Leaving a non-denominational, reformed, Baptist-ish church. Have not decided on a new one. The thread has only been open like two days! I think it will be a process to find a new church home.

For someone wondering why it is a grieving process:
1) Leaving community you felt connected to and cared for is a significant loss in someone's life

Thanks for everyone with recs so far.
2) I can also grieve that I have participated in supporting beliefs that have harmed people

Baptistish? There is no such thing, especially non-denominational. Baptists are not vague people.

Haha I mean not technically affiliated with a Baptist denomination but some Baptist beliefs, like believers baptism

That doesn’t make sense. Baptists are Baptists.

Believer's baptism is one of several distinctive doctrines associated closely with Anabaptist (literally, rebaptizer) denominations, inclusive of Mennonites, Amish, Hutterites, Bruderhof, Schwarzenau Brethren, River Brethren, and Apostolic Christians.


Believer's baptism is also practiced by many Pentecostals.

Why on earth are you berating OP and being nosy? It sounds like she is trying to keep details private. Respect that. Offer recommendations or move on.

Why would anyone post about their personal lives online and get upset when people ask questions?

I don’t know why op won’t say what denomination she and her husband are leaving, it’s quite odd.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Affirming but with a high view of Scripture would be a unicorn. Or one of those things does not mean what you think it means.

They already believe one fantasy about a zombie who walked on water . They can believe in unicorns too

[Anonymous]

Romans 12:9-10

Love must be sincere. Hate what is evil; cling to what is good. Be devoted to one another in love. Honor one another above yourselves.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Leaving a non-denominational, reformed, Baptist-ish church. Have not decided on a new one. The thread has only been open like two days! I think it will be a process to find a new church home.

For someone wondering why it is a grieving process:
1) Leaving community you felt connected to and cared for is a significant loss in someone's life

Thanks for everyone with recs so far.
2) I can also grieve that I have participated in supporting beliefs that have harmed people

Baptistish? There is no such thing, especially non-denominational. Baptists are not vague people.

Haha I mean not technically affiliated with a Baptist denomination but some Baptist beliefs, like believers baptism

That doesn’t make sense. Baptists are Baptists.

Believer's baptism is one of several distinctive doctrines associated closely with Anabaptist (literally, rebaptizer) denominations, inclusive of Mennonites, Amish, Hutterites, Bruderhof, Schwarzenau Brethren, River Brethren, and Apostolic Christians.


Believer's baptism is also practiced by many Pentecostals.

Why on earth are you berating OP and being nosy? It sounds like she is trying to keep details private. Respect that. Offer recommendations or move on.

Why would anyone post about their personal lives online and get upset when people ask questions?

I don’t know why op won’t say what denomination she and her husband are leaving, it’s quite odd.

I literally said it was non-denominational lol. I was just adding some additional details because that can mean a lot of thinga.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Leaving a non-denominational, reformed, Baptist-ish church. Have not decided on a new one. The thread has only been open like two days! I think it will be a process to find a new church home.

For someone wondering why it is a grieving process:
1) Leaving community you felt connected to and cared for is a significant loss in someone's life

Thanks for everyone with recs so far.
2) I can also grieve that I have participated in supporting beliefs that have harmed people

Baptistish? There is no such thing, especially non-denominational. Baptists are not vague people.

Haha I mean not technically affiliated with a Baptist denomination but some Baptist beliefs, like believers baptism

That doesn’t make sense. Baptists are Baptists.

Believer's baptism is one of several distinctive doctrines associated closely with Anabaptist (literally, rebaptizer) denominations, inclusive of Mennonites, Amish, Hutterites, Bruderhof, Schwarzenau Brethren, River Brethren, and Apostolic Christians.


Believer's baptism is also practiced by many Pentecostals.

Why on earth are you berating OP and being nosy? It sounds like she is trying to keep details private. Respect that. Offer recommendations or move on.

Why would anyone post about their personal lives online and get upset when people ask questions?

I don’t know why op won’t say what denomination she and her husband are leaving, it’s quite odd.

I literally said it was non-denominational lol. I was just adding some additional details because that can mean a lot of thinga.

So you are leaving a non-denominational church that doesn’t affirm gay people and believes in Believer’s Baptism?