You can, but most teens are not going to practice oral sex with a condom on. https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/29174873/
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Thanks for posting that, PP. it’s solid science behind the survey but it makes me sad that today’s generation is not taking safer-sex seriously. Maybe revisions need to be made to Fairfax’s family-life education curriculum to reinforce condom / dental-dam use during oral practices? |
New rule. No friends over unless you are home, no closed doors.
You need to also have a very serious talk about sex, STDs, birth control and consent as well as respect. |
I’m sorry, but your son is a LIAR. Of course he doesn’t want you interfering in his using hoards of girls like toilet paper, use them up and toss them away. His bad behavior does NOT help him excel in life, unless he aspires to be a professional cheater. Is he driving these girls to your house? In YOUR car? You need to be checking his cell phone for porn. Your boy thinks he’s in charge because you’re treating him more like your responsible house mate instead of a child who has developed some very bad ethics. Is he a junior or senior? |
Why is everyone giving advice to OP about condoms and what type prevent pregnancy and STDs? He’s a father. Presumably he knows all of this already. What he needs is advice on how to talk to his son, not about the condoms but about having sex with a different girl each time. |
I would be horrified if my daughter got f’ed by such a sleazy boy. I wouldn’t care about his grades or sports. Most parents want kids to respect each other.
Who knows if they’re vaping and getting drunk along with the screwing. |
I blame his parents. |
You need to hire a housekeeper who is there when he comes home from school. She is in the house cleaning and going from room to room until you come home.
I just talked to a family who's son was doing this. The parents didn't say anything about for the year that it was going on. But it was just one girl and she never bothered to say anything but "Hi!" to the parents. As far as I understood, it was a purely sexual relationship, those kids never saw each other except for sex. They met the mom once and they said she seemed totally checked out. To me, both sets of parents seem checked out. At the very least get to know the girlfriend or boyfriend. That usually sets a tone of respect. My son, who never pays attention to me, was very attentive to my reactions when his first girlfriend sat with us for dinner a few times. (They never had a chance sex, he dropped her after a few months when she began to psychoanalyze everything he uttered.) |
Actually, he might be gay? The few kids I knew who were sexually active early on turned out to be gay later on. |
The cleaning lady is a great idea. |
I frankly do not understand most of advice given here. Are you all against 17 year olds having sex in the safety of their own home behind closed doors?
I get the different girl every time concern. I would discuss 1. Always using protection 2. Being very clear on age and consent 3. Gently and without judgment - about motivation behind all that - is it really high sex drive and girls lining up OR some tic-toc challenge or showing off to friends and him actively pursuing multiple girls just for the kicks? I would ask about whether he keeps the encounters confidential and whether there are any concerns about reputation. Finally, I would ask if he considered having sex as part of a relationship to have that experience and to have a consistent partner. I would really withhold judgment and just chat first. |
This is pretty disgusting; clearly he views girls as just a sperm receptacle. If he's doing this at 17, what is he going to be doing at 25? Or later? Gross.
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You sound like an unhinged misandrist and complete nut-job. Please seek the mental health hep you obviously need. |
This is simply how teens date in 2024. It’s all arranged on social media. They get together, do it, and move on. Surprised how checked-out many of you are to the reality of being a social-media-connected teen in 2024. Get a clue, people! This is not the 1970s. |