ugh no. don't say that. what is the point? it's rude. "I love you, let me know if there's anything to do to support you" |
We have a situation where half of the grandchildren in the family have come out, which tracks with those stats about how half of students in SLACs etc. now label themselves queer. However I have to wonder if ten years from now, half of the next generation of my family will be gay. I wonder about making a big deal about being supportive if it turns out to be a phase for at least some of them. If they change their mind later, what would it feel like to have your relatives all tell you that they always knew you were gay. I also think you might reach out to the parents having a hard time and not villainize them. They may experience grief about the vision that they had for their family and that too is valid and should be recognized. |
I was thinking I might say "Oh thank goodness! I was afraid you were going to tell me you are a Republican." |
Oh my god, that's an amazing line. |
"Thanka for letting me know. Let me know if you want me to introduce anyone to you. I'm here if you ever have questions touvneed to talk about." |
Oh my god, what a stupid and ignorant line. |
So it's not a good look to tell someone, especially a teen, that you're imagined them having sex and you think you know what sort of people are a better fit. |