WOW, just wow. |
Google "Cinderella effect." This has been known for over 40 years. Step parents abuse and kill their step children at rates that are about 7 times higher than genetic parents. The original research was done by Martin Daly and Margo Wilson. Daly, M.; Wilson, M. (1985). "Child abuse and other risks of not living with both parents". Ethology and Sociobiology. 6 (4): 197–210. doi:10.1016/0162-3095(85)90012-3. S2CID 145192777. |
Google "Cinderella effect." This has been known for over 40 years. Step parents abuse and kill their step children at rates that are about 7 times higher than genetic parents. The original research was done by Martin Daly and Margo Wilson. Daly, M.; Wilson, M. (1985). "Child abuse and other risks of not living with both parents". Ethology and Sociobiology. 6 (4): 197–210. doi:10.1016/0162-3095(85)90012-3. S2CID 145192777. |
Another scenario- step-mom is a mature woman who isn’t threatened by children from another relationship and who knew what she was getting into before marrying the dad. She is a logical person who allows her husband to put his kids first so it can lessen the impact of the divorce on them and lessen the potential damage to his relationships with them. She allows him one-on-one time with his kids and fosters and encourages their relationships, knowing that this season of life is over in an instant. Honestly divorced people shouldn’t re-couple unless they are willing to put the kids first. And this is coming from a divorced woman. |