I have heard Latin is great with this but who knows? We have had no problems at all with this at ITDS but I have talked to other families who have. It just seems like the admin is new and still learning the "rules" about how to appropriately handle things. That and they are listening, making you feel heard, and then not following through with anything. Again, I do see the later in small things but haven't had any big issues thankfully. |
Can you give an example of what has occurred and how the administration has handled it? |
The weird thing is the Head of School and also the principal were recently hired from two very different schools, both of which have a lot of kids with special needs and behavior issues. So it's not like they lack experience with it. I really, really, really don't want ITS middle to end up like Two Rivers, though of course I'd never say that to the principal's face. |
The one with the throwing of chairs early this past year in 5th, which they totally hushed up and refuse to answer questions about. The one with the kid getting throttled and they deny it ever happened. Also 5th this year. How they talk about "restorative justice" and give you an equity scolding if you question its effectiveness at reducing violence. |
I don’t mean that. It seems to be a consistent concern in this forum that behavioral issues aren’t handled well or appropriately at many schools. I’m wondering if there are any schools that do handle things well. Maybe suspension or expulsion is what those posters would consider the appropriate response. |
Part of the issue with ITS middle is the small size and personalized approach tends to attract families who think their kid needs that, and sometimes those kids just aren't as mature, or have special needs that affect behavior. And those kids are less likely to leave for Latin and BASIS as well. It's kind of a built in feature. |
Honestly, I'm not aware of one. Some schools hush it up better than others though. |
But right. Two Rivers is a mess...I have heard terrible things about not only academics but absolute lack of behavior control. I think the HOS is from Breakthrough Montessori? I know fewer details about that school but I don't think it is/was highly thought of either. The school just doesn't feel as "Inspired" as it used to. I am hoping my younger child has the positive experience my older has but I am not so sure that will happen. I am still hopeful though! |
ITDS’s way of handling kids with ADHD is to force them to leave. |
No, the HOS comes from a Ward 7 DCPS elementary and middle. It's easy to fall for the lovely ECE program, and I think a lot of older kid parents being less satisfied is just part of the kids growing up. Little kids, little problems, you know? I am the PP who is pretty critical of ITS for various things including behavior, but I do think it's a good school in many ways, and I wouldn't switch to any other school in the area. |
But there are so many still there! |
Concur. I know of at least four children who were assaulted by the chair tosser. As mentioned earlier, third grade was also a mess. My child was punched by another kid after beating him at a game and administration told him that my son should try to be his friend. We left DCPS. ITDS is still a great school for early ed, but I’d bail at 1st or 2nd. |
Is that the so-called "restorative justice" in action? |
Oh yes...I just read her bio. It's very impressive actually. I do not like many of the changes that have happened since she started and I don't know how directly she has been involved. The principal structure prior to covid really worked well. ESP in the middle school where there was a dedicated principal for the 7th-8th grades. I do hear rumors of the staff being unhappy now while before I heard staff say that they stayed because the school made it such a nice environment for them. I am happy enough with the VP for the middle school now (spans 5-8th though) but the VP for the elementary age kids is just vacant. No emails from her the entire school year, and aside from her photo in the staff directory I do not think I have seen her once. The middle school VP is at least very present and knows the kids and their families. We are staying but it does seem less ideal than it used to. It's starting to feel more like a DCPS than an inspired charter. |
Funny, I super disliked the prior HOS, and I know the elementary level AP well and think she knows my kids as well as can be expected. I agree she seldom emails, though. |