Need advice from guys - drunk dialing/texting

[Anonymous]

I have a male friend (I am female) that is in a very committed relationship (as am I). We are good friends though. Twice in the past 6 months he has called me and been like "I love you.... I love you so much" or texted me like "you are so hot" and then the next day doesn't "remember" anything when the drunken stupor has worn off.

Is alcohol truth serum for some men or is he just fucking with me?

[Anonymous]

He is just thinking with the wrong head! Alcohol + drunk dial = DISASTER everytime!!!

[Anonymous]

Why is this board suddenly overtaken with college students asking "does he like me?" questions?

He wants to sleep with you and is able to keep it in his fantasy world when he is sober. When he gets really drunk, he's unable to keep it under wraps. Do you want to sleep with him? He would happily.

[Anonymous]

Most men want to sleep with their female friends. Almost all of them actually. That's one of the reasons we're friends with you, whether we realize it or not.

So yea, he wants to bang you.

[Anonymous]

I feel sorry for his girlfriend - he clearly wants to sleep with you. good luck!

[Anonymous]

In vino veritas is a pretty good rule of thumb. Having said that, just because you want something doesn't mean that you necessarily intend to act on it.

[Anonymous]

You're in a committed relationship and so is he. What does it matter if he has feelings for you or if he's just jerking you around?

If you care about the relationship you're in, tell your guy friend that his texting and drunk dialing is inappropriate and has to stop.

[Anonymous]

And don't think you're the only one he's drunk dialing. He's probably working his way down his contact list.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:And don't think you're the only one he's drunk dialing. He's probably working his way down his contact list.

This is not necessarily true. I've been guilty of drunk dialing in the past myself, and there wasn't a list, sometimes you just get attached to someone. lol

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:And don't think you're the only one he's drunk dialing. He's probably working his way down his contact list.

This is not necessarily true. I've been guilty of drunk dialing in the past myself, and there wasn't a list, sometimes you just get attached to someone. lol

oh please spare yourself the ego massage.

OP, your "friend" is putting feelers out there to see if you'll bite. You and and several other women

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:You're in a committed relationship and so is he. What does it matter if he has feelings for you or if he's just jerking you around?

If you care about the relationship you're in, tell your guy friend that his texting and drunk dialing is inappropriate and has to stop.

Because when a woman asks questions like that, it's because she's having the same thoughts he is. (No, she swears, she just wants to know what's going on!)

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:You're in a committed relationship and so is he. What does it matter if he has feelings for you or if he's just jerking you around?

If you care about the relationship you're in, tell your guy friend that his texting and drunk dialing is inappropriate and has to stop.

Because when a woman asks questions like that, it's because she's having the same thoughts he is. (No, she swears, she just wants to know what's going on!)

lol exactly, if she didn't see him that way she'd just think "eww" and keep it to herself or tell her female friends he's "Creepy"

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:OP, your "friend" is putting feelers out there to see if you'll bite. You and and several other women

No, I don't believe it's going to several other women. That would be done lightly. Drunk dialing is more likely to reveal a secret obsession, or at least a major crush, and that would be toward one person. If the crush doesn't develop, the guy may develop a new one on someone else, but it's probably exclusive at the time it's expressed.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:OP, your "friend" is putting feelers out there to see if you'll bite. You and and several other women

No, I don't believe it's going to several other women. That would be done lightly. Drunk dialing is more likely to reveal a secret obsession, or at least a major crush, and that would be toward one person. If the crush doesn't develop, the guy may develop a new one on someone else, but it's probably exclusive at the time it's expressed.

That's what people who live in Delusion-Land like to tell themselves, because, well, it makes them feel special. Child please, if he's drunk dialing you, he's looking for someone to bang who would easily say yes and if you say no, he will move on to the next. If he keeps drunk dialing you, it's because he a persistent person who hopes that one day, you'll bite, and you probably will take the bait eventually.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:And don't think you're the only one he's drunk dialing. He's probably working his way down his contact list.

This is not necessarily true. I've been guilty of drunk dialing in the past myself, and there wasn't a list, sometimes you just get attached to someone. lol

oh please spare yourself the ego massage.

OP, your "friend" is putting feelers out there to see if you'll bite. You and and several other women

I disagree with Bitter Harpy. Could just be you.