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Suspect that DH is sleeping with the nanny
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Anonymous
| I want to confront him. Marriage is not great, but I was hoping that he would find his thing on the side outside of the home. My issue is that I really do not want to lose the nanny but don't see how I can call him out and not fire her (or have her just quit). |
Anonymous
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I hope this is not a true story, but if it is, all my sympathies.
The nanny has to go. Your husband as well. I'm a fan of reconciliation, having had one myself, but in your case it sounds unrealistic. |
Anonymous
| Why would you not want to fire her if she is sleeping with your DH? No nanny is that good, I mean come on! |
Anonymous
| Dont want to go into too much detail but lets just say that I do not care that he is with someone else (we have an understanding), just his decision to stay close to home. |
Anonymous
| so messed up for the kids. confront, fire the nanny even if you are not prepared to fire the husband. |
Anonymous
Umm ok then I am really not sure what you are complaining about. This is just messed up and sick in general. |
Anonymous
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Are you the poster who made up the story about her DH going to see Winnie the Pooh on her own?
This cannot be serious: "I was hoping that he would find his thing on the side outside of the home."!!!! |
Anonymous
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After reading several different posts in this forum and in other sections of DCUM, I'm astounded. Posters are blasting some poor guy who is going through a divorce and telling him that staying in an unhappy marriage is better than divorce but OP is putting up with a husband who sleeps around with permission but pissed he is going after the nanny??? I sincerely hope that those who are such big fans of staying in an unhappy marriage "for the kids" are not the same ones who allow their spouses to cheat just so they can keep their farce of a marriage together. Kids aren't stupid--they'll figure it out eventually.
Then again, I suspect that OP is not staying in the marriage for the kids. I suspect she is staying in the marriage for the money. I thank my lucky stars everyday for my marriage. Its far from perfect but compared to some of the people on this forum, its damn near close. |
Anonymous
| I agree, he shouldn't be pooping where he's eating, even if it's an open marriage (or is it only open for him? If so, she's in it for the money and for appearances.) |
Anonymous
| This was in the Sex in the City movie! Charlotte's first thought when everyone saw the hot nanny wasn't that Harry might cheat, but that if he did, she didn't want to lose the nanny! |
Anonymous
| The veracity of the post aside, OP do you really think this Nanny, if she is in fact sleeping with your husband, is the best person for the job? Seems like sleeping with your employer regardless of marital status is a poor decision. Perhaps there is somone else better qualified for the both postitions, the nanny and mistress. |
Anonymous
| Aaaaand that's the problem with "understandings". |
Anonymous
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Anonymous
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How can you trust the nanny with your kids, if you can't trust her with your husband?
If this story is even true! |
Anonymous
| It's not this is BS! |